i like this girl that i have also gone out with in the past, shes turned me down other times but occasionally we'll have those "talks" where she says she can see herself liking me but not now because she doesnt want a boyfriend we've been talking alot lately but im still not sure what her feelings are. what should i do?
2006-08-14 19:41:53 · 15 answers · asked by CRUNK 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, it would probably be wise to leave her be. You don't want to get with someone that isn't sure what she wants. --I think, from how you explained it, that she doesn't even know what she wants. So, let her decide on her own.
If you were to get with her now, there is no telling what may happen. She may decide to break up with you again-- and this time, actually hurting you.
It's not worth the trouble. Just keep in contact, and stay JUST friends for now, until it is visible she really does want to get back with you. Until then, I would just go on about life.
Don't try to play games, that's childish. Such as, don't try to go off and get your friend jealous. That is cruel.. Not good. If she does it, well then let her. And then prove her wrong by allowing her games not to mess with your mind. Don't let her know that you actually care. Girls like to do that for some reason-- but I for one, wouldn't even consider returning the act.
Life goes on.. I've known many the same way, and it's a bit confusing. But, normally when I actually tried to do everything I could- it would only hurt me more. I think you get the picture...
Good Luck...
--Rob :)
2006-08-14 23:40:29 · answer #1 · answered by stealth_n700ms 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Spend the rest of your life waiting for this girl to make up her mind whether or not she likes you. Or keep looking and find a girl that knows what she wants- preferrably YOU. Life's too short to let any girl play yo-yo with your emotions. You can and will do better than that. It just takes time. Be patient and find the right girl, leave Ms. StringYouAlong alone.
2006-08-14 19:53:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey Crunk ,
I think you should respect her and just listen when she says she doesn't want a boyfriend right now. She's thinking if she can give you another chance but scared that you'll do the same thing you did. Which is why you're in this situation right now. Just give her space. She'll come around. If she give you a chance. That's a big IF.
2006-08-14 19:49:58 · answer #3 · answered by Flygirl 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nothing. You are probably not her type and she prefers to be just friends with you. Since she know how you feel you chill out and see whether she will fall for you. If not just move on get other things to do and stop hanging out around her coz it will make you want to be with her more.
2006-08-14 19:49:23 · answer #4 · answered by Ycul72 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have a serious talk with her and ask her to explain how she feels about you. Feelings do change sometimes.Maybe then you won't be getting any more mixed messages.
2006-08-14 19:46:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep talking. Her feelings will eventually become apparent.
2006-08-14 19:45:57 · answer #6 · answered by Didiem 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
give her time to think she most likely will come around if not try finding somebody else there r more fish in the sea
2006-08-14 19:43:53 · answer #7 · answered by tylers baby girl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Move on
2006-08-14 20:09:06 · answer #8 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Back off and look elsewhere. Her interest in you will peak when your interest in her decreases. It's simple psychology.
2006-08-14 19:44:18 · answer #9 · answered by d.anconia 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her how you feel and ask her if she would give you a chance.
2006-08-14 19:44:42 · answer #10 · answered by Ice Raven 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋