alrighty, well am going out with this guy that I met through my cousin... we met @ h3r house...well h3 asked m3 out two weeks ago and of cours3 I said y3s..I really like him so much but he never wants to come over my house and hang out or just hang out with me... all he wants me to do is hang out with his friends and my cousin and drink/get high but am not that type of girl.And if we do ever go out he always wants to take someone with him and I hate that!! don't get me wrong he's a sweet, kind, and caring guy. I just don't understand if I should let him have fun or if I should hang out with him and his friends everyday help! ...I don't know what to do ...or what to tell him...
2006-08-14 19:38:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As long as he does drugs he is a losser time him that and the only way he can date you or go out with you is to quite drugs all together that and drinking if he has a problem with that forget him and move on.
2006-08-14 19:46:16 · answer #1 · answered by Paul G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had this problem, only vice versa. I'm a guy and have made some female-aquaintences (not GIRLFRIENDS, I'm married). I concidered them my friends, and sometimes, when bored, I would call them up and ask if they wanted to hang out or watch a show or even get food, but they would always try to find someone else to be there too, especially if my wife wasn't there, or wouldn't be back in a few minutes. I had NO ILL INTENTIONS and just wanted to chill and not be alone, but it seemed like they were scared to be alone with me. I don't know if that was specifically the case, since no one will come out and say "yeah, I'd love to come over, but I'm scared that you will try to rape me, so let me see if my friend is availible to come over too?" It's just weird to me.
2006-08-15 02:47:54 · answer #2 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh he sounds like a winner, find someone else to date and lose the loser....
2006-08-15 02:43:50 · answer #3 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not comfortable in being in that kind of situation, then don't be in it. don't try to change someone because they don't fit in your kind of life. do what's best for you.
2006-08-15 02:43:58 · answer #4 · answered by DaNewGuy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U NEED 2 SIT DOWN AND HAVE A LONG TALK WITH HIM.
2006-08-15 02:44:07 · answer #5 · answered by lovinonly#1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that he is insecure around you.
2006-08-15 02:42:07 · answer #6 · answered by Ice Raven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋