Guys: Do you think Women on here give some TERRIBLE relationship advice?

Question

This is for guys with any sort of game, people who think they're successful with women, know what they really like, etc. I've been reading a lot of poor sucker guys' questions asking for advice about some girl they like, asking the women here about what they think the guy should do. The answers these women give some of these guys is pretty much the exact OPPOSITE of what really should be done!

I see a lot of "tell her exactly how you feel about her" to guys who have a friend that they've supposedly "fallen for", or to send a girl flowers to tell them that they like them, etc etc.

To me a lot of this says that what women want and what they THINK they want are two completely different things, and at times OPPOSITES. It begs the question, "If Women don't even know what they want, how are WE supposed to?"

Trial and Error is my answer, really.

And I'm not trying to flame anyone here, a lot of women give a lot of GREAT advice and its much appreciated! But some of you guys' advice will just make the guy look like a creep and might just ruin any chance of a relationship!

Answer 1

Haha!!! This is SOOO completely true. Sorry girls but some of your advice SUCKS. This guy told me that he liked me and I freaked out. I mean, who does that!!!? Besides...he wasn't the guy I liked, haha!! I dont' think that guys should tell girls that they like them, they should SHOW them..and by saying that I am, of course, excluding all stalker behavior including sending flowers, cards, etc. I want to know how many of these girls have actually had a guy just walk up and say "i completely like you. go out with me"...because they would not be saying this "stuff" if they have. Guys are supposed to keep some mystery about them. They love the chase. We love making them chase after us. Case closed. So guys..don't blow your chances by spilling the beans!!

aaaand..as for what girls want. Haha..good luck with that one. It REALLY depends on the girl. What she values most. What attracts her to a guy in the first place. Its too complicated, really. I hate the games we all play with each other's hearts.

Answer 2

I don't understand...you're a guy, right? And you are telling women what they really want? Where do you get 'what women want and what they THINK they want' are not the same? Are you saying YOU a male knows what a woman REALLY wants? And we, women, don't have a clue...maybe we just need some strong he-man to come around and TELL us what we think and feeling. Have you ever told a girl exactly how you feel about her or sent flowers to tell her that you like her? Yeah, sometimes those things might not work, but that would indicate that the couple is not a good match, not that the girl "didn't really know what she REALLY wanted."

Answer 3

I completely agree. I don't like to brag but I know my **** so well people come to me for REAL advice in real life.
I've read several books regarding "game" and yes a lot of the advice here comes from a.) other loser/pussy guys and b.) women who don't really know what they want (a recurring theme).
It's all about reading about the subject from knowledgable sources and seeing the patterns (most go back to evolution).

LOl @ "buy her x" and all that garbage. Ain't nother more that says "loser" than a guy paying good $ to please a girl.

Edit:
Okay girl below me, you wanna go I'll go.
Yes I am a guy and yes I am saying that most girls don't really know what they want in a guy. I'm not saying that women don't have a clue but certainly a large portion don't know exactly what they want and yes I've been noticing that a lot of the advice on these forums is absolute garbage. There is a lot more going on under the surface than most think or even ever think about. I don't usually come outright and literally say the way I feel about the girl but instead I express myself with ACTIONS. I don't feel like people in a relationship should always be expressing themself with something as profane as words PLUS not always expressing everything in words leaves a thing we call "mystery" that girls are attracted to. Ever heard the quote "familiarity breeds contempt"? If you know everything about a guy then that leaves very little to the imagination.

I'm not saying that all advice on here is bad but I've certainly see a large majority of bad advice.
"Tell her how you feel"... yeah okay there's nothing people hate worse than having someone they don't like tell them about how much they like them.
I mean I just responded to a thread where all the girls were saying the guy should be paying for her food at the first date. TELL ME EXACTLY WHAT IS IT ABOUT A MAN AND A WOMAN ON A FIRST DATE THAT A MAN SHOULD SHELL OUT MONEY FOR THE WOMAN'S FOOD? Has she done anything big for him yet? Are men just supposed to always *bribe* women to like them? Give me a break.
See, ask.me.n.e.thing. agrees with me. BOOYAKASHA! I should send her some creepy flowers with a card that says "from your secret stalker", it would be romantic.

Answer 4

Ha HA!! Excellent question. They NEVER practice what they preach!

Answer 5

I think you're right on the money.

Answer 6

do u see my name in ur list????...i hope not....