okay,me and my boyfriend almost broke up,he has my heart,soul,pride,and almost anything you can think of but,now that we didn't break up i am scared of his dick,scared 2 talk 2 him.does anyone know why???this isn't a game either.but we love each other and we been together 4 7 mouths now,what should i do???he told me that i shouldn't be scared,expecially when he takes my virginity away,what should i do???help me please????no games either i am serious
2006-08-14 19:20:36 · 6 answers · asked by Natasha C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he really loves you he will respect whatever your decision is. tell him you are not ready and your carnal treasure is for your husband to be. if he understands then he is mature enough to respect you.
2006-08-14 19:25:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay, don't panic. This should really be coming from someone like your mother, but here it goes. First off, get some of that personal lube, like you see on TV, and remember to use protection...condoms...the first time will hurt, no matter what people say, it will hurt. Because you will be nervous, your...down there will be...not ready, thats what the lube is for, it will help. Make sure your guy takes it easy with you, and slow! No need to hurt you anymore then nessesary, and be ready to walk funny the next morning, because you may be sore....I hope that helped...uh...bye.
2006-08-15 02:32:26 · answer #2 · answered by Wren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him and want to lose your virginity to him then just try to relax and make the timing perfect, also ask him to be gentle and loving, and trust that if he loves you as much as you love him he will do all he can to make it comfortable and memorable to you, but make sure this is what you want because your virginity is something you can't take back.
2006-08-15 02:25:29 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. FairyLove 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
how old are u? bec nobody should tell u what to do at any age hon i hate to break it to u but hes got u where he wants u... it sounds like hes not a decent guy at all and all he wants from u is uer body and his own pleasure. please dont do anything uer not comfy wth.if he truly cared about u hed be gentle loving and understanding at the least. goodluck ps and if u do decide to have sex use the proper protection.
2006-08-15 02:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by blueducky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont ever let him take ur virginity away!!!!he's a real player!!!leave him asap,he just loves u for sex ,especially since he said that u dont have to worry to lose it to him..
2006-08-15 02:25:58 · answer #5 · answered by alexgnot 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think u are afraid to be pregnant ........
2006-08-15 02:27:28 · answer #6 · answered by nEeLaM zAfaR 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋