2006-08-14 19:02:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
You're half right. The only thing I disagree with is that it's not just limited to 13-year-olds. A lot of guys of ALL ages aren't interested in anything but sex. The trick is to find the guys who genuinely aren't, as hard as that can be.
2006-08-14 19:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Relationships at 13 are all bogus. Masturbate and keep to yourself. If you're 13, you don't fully know yourself yet (and neither does the guy you may be interested in). Around 20 is a good age to start worrying about establishing a lasting, meaningful relationship. Make some guy friends (just friends) for now, and keep your pants on.
Oh, and by the way... not all guys are alike. Some guys place a high meaning on sex, and sadly, most don't. Some (hopefully most) girls place a high value on sex, and some don't. Do you really think every guy at any age is identical??
Just remember... Sex isn't special... Sex is sacred, and should be treated that way.
2006-08-14 19:30:51 · answer #2 · answered by jared 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to remember that at age 13 girls are usually much, much more mature than guys. Those are just boys, emotionally, and often physically as well. Some 13 year-old girls are emotionally becoming young women already, but don't realize they still have a lot to learn and experience. I know it's hard to wait, but it will be years before the guys your age will catch up. Try to concentrate on your interests and girlfriends and education. It's easier on your soul.
2006-08-14 19:14:48 · answer #3 · answered by galaxiquestar 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Actually, you answered your own question. 1) They want you just for sex. 2) They do not want a relationship,because they know what a relationship entails.
PS: If ANY of the kids involved in this (including you, missy) were mine, I'd horsewhip them within an inch of their lives. You're 13, fer chrissake. Put it back in your pants, sit down, shut up and act like the little children you really (physically and emotionally) are...
2006-08-14 19:15:02 · answer #4 · answered by Sean T 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At 13 no one knows what a relationship is, girls or boys. I would suggest some maturing before you involve sex in to anything, and for that matter before getting involved in a relationship.
2006-08-14 19:09:27 · answer #5 · answered by asmul8ed 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Guys of 13 should have girls but not in the meaning f sex as for asians they don't have girls at that age its only after 17 on wards
but in USA and Europeits a habbit to have girls at their very needy age. they think its a must to have during that age but i'm 17 and i still don't have one !
2006-08-14 19:08:18 · answer #6 · answered by Hugo Afkhar 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
At 13? Kids that age have just figured out that they're alive. They have no idea what its like to be involved with a girl.
2006-08-14 19:05:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
At 13 years of age, a boy's hormone level starts to get wacko.
All they're concerned about is satisfying that need.
Relationship-wise, they have the mind of a 9 year old.
Seriously.
2006-08-14 19:11:03 · answer #8 · answered by Mitch 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guys at thirteen are just coming in to puberty. They have feelings like they have never had before. The Society of today which started in the 70's thru womens Lib's, have put todays young ladies at high risk. Guys today at thirteen, think of only sex as that is what is on their mind. the problem is that they have not yet been trained how to control their Horney desires.
That is where girls of today need to be strong and stick to their guns and have the boys of today holster their weapons. The women Liber's of yesterday wanted free sex but they forgot to tell the young girls of today that free sex comes with a price.
Women mature faster mentally than boys do. But boys mature faster in puberty than girls. So like life in todays world, Girls are the trainers of boys, and once young girls understand how to control the men of tomorrow today, the girls will be happier and in control of their men.
So gilrs, Keep your short pants on, legs closed and lead the boys around by theri tongues. It is not easy to train them but it is worth the efforts.
Good luck
2006-08-14 19:18:12 · answer #9 · answered by NIck N 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In my opinion, at 13 years of age, neither girl/boy should be involved with either. Neither of you are emotionally prepared for sex, or a relationship. So, no. I'd assume they have no idea (or no intention), concerning relationships.
2006-08-14 19:09:43 · answer #10 · answered by Empress 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋