2006-08-14 18:47:19 · 13 answers · asked by Humdy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Nothing. You will burn in hell if you don't marry her, have babies and take them to church.
Have a nice day.
2006-08-14 18:51:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex outside marriage is prohibited in all cases as sex ultimately creates new life. Marriage is nothing but the commitment to raise a family together. If that commitment is not there and you indulge in an activity that makes a baby, then you are really being very unfair and cruel to the baby that will come because of ones actions. This baby would either have to be killed (abortion is nothing but that) or would have the handicap of not having a father from day one. THAT means the mom will have to work and the baby will have neither the father nor mother most of her or his life. This would grow an unloved and insecure human beings. There are always exceptions and people overcome these difficulty even when raised by single mothers. But, many do lose out and become adrift.
How can anyone be so callous as to want to give a bad life to another human being for a few minutes of pleasure, unless they are totally immature and stupid and do not understand what they are doing.
The difference between the girl friend and adultery is this. If you get pregnant, in the case of a girl friend, if you have some sense of decency, you would at least marry the girl and raise a family because you were pregnant. In the case of adultery that is not a possibility and the child has to be either killed or abandoned.
I hope this makes sense.
2006-08-15 01:58:06 · answer #2 · answered by NQV 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adultery is not prohibited by God, nor has He allowed it. He is not bothered with these tinsel human conducts after having endowed men with a conscience. For everything that is desirable and good need not be associated with God. As a rational human being we have been endowed with intelligence and conscience to conduct ourselves in a manner that supports our peaceful and prosperous life in the society. If we have extra marital affairs, the peace at home and in the family of the adulterated woman will be disturbed. Hence, one should not do any such act. A girlfriend for a married man will be a source of marital conflict with his own wife. Therefore, one should restrain himself from having a girlfriend other than his wife after marriage. God does not come to picture at all. Your own conduct with regard to your wife and others wives will decide your peace and prosperity.
2006-08-15 02:01:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adultery as one of the Ten commandments forbid a married person to have an affair or a mistress. A single man can have a girlfriend because he's not committed to somebody with marriage vows. ... to be faithful.
2006-08-15 01:53:08 · answer #4 · answered by rosieC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adultry is when a Married woman has relations with a man other than her husband. Both the man and the woman have commited adultry. If am man is married and goes out side his marrage with an unmarried woman then he does not commit adultry. If a man is able to have more than one wife according to the law of the old testament.
I am not sure if Jesus changed the definition of adultry when he prohibited having more than one wife, but I don't think so. I guess our society has changed the definition.
2006-08-15 01:59:01 · answer #5 · answered by anonomous 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Adultery can be deflowering a basically good girl. It, however, mostly revovles around having sex with a woman who is not your wife when you are also married to a woman!
Adultery is also putting fillers into hot dogs!
2006-08-15 02:37:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adultery is only committed when a married person has sex with someone other than their spouse. If a person has sex with a married person, they are guilty of fornication, but not adultery.
Sex between unmarried people is called fornication, also,
I just call it natural.
2006-08-15 01:56:35 · answer #7 · answered by friscolady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adultery specifically refers to having sexual relations with a married woman not your wife; or, her having relations with a man not her husband. But, if the husband consents, it's okay.
Adultery is more related to stealing property (the woman's services) than sexual activities.
The commandment does not apply to married men. It only applies to married women.
2006-08-15 01:52:37 · answer #8 · answered by Left the building 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Adultry refer to people who are married, in a so called committed relationship with one another and one if not both turn around and cheat on there spouse with a girlfriend or boyfriend.
2006-08-15 01:51:08 · answer #9 · answered by nytrauma911 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a girlfriend is not a sin. Thinking or being affectionate to the point that one of you begins to get aroused is where the line needs to be drawn. If you want to know where to draw the line, That's it.
Don't tease yourself or your girlfriend.
Click on this to read the sixth Commandment explained on the Vatican Website.
http://www.vatican.va/archive/catechism/p3s2c2a6.htm
God Bless You, ;-)
2006-08-15 01:50:54 · answer #10 · answered by Deena 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a girlfriend is not a sin... it's the ACT of sex with a married person or BEING married and having sex with someone else IS a sin.
2006-08-15 01:54:04 · answer #11 · answered by Rogue Scrapbooker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋