for those who had thier heart broken....?

Question

ok so i feel so sad n i have feel like crying n have this awful pain in my chest...what should i do to get over this guy and help me move on n not think of him no more or anything that reminds me of him..so i can be happy again

Answer 1

one day at a time sweety, one day at a time... this will pass too, the important thing is to take the good things and the way you grew from all that you lived and leave behind the shame, the sense of worthlessness, the feeling of being a fool, etc... let all that go one day at a time, hold on to the good things that made you into a better person.

loving is always a risk but a risk that surely helps you in your way if you know how to get the best of it whether you are in a good relationship or whether you have just ended a bad one.

Answer 2

Go to your girlfriends house and chill out. Get a ton of ice cream (my favorite is Ben and Jerry's) and get all the crying out. Rant and rave about everything that you've got on your mind. Indulge your girlfriend and let her give you some advice or say "I told you so". Take a long bath or shower...it'll feel great after all that crying. Don't try thinking about what you're going to do now...unless there's a moving situation. Ask for help on that, and by no means are you to go alone to move anything...bring a friend or sibling. If he wants to get some resolution...let him come to you for it...if you want resolution, I find it's best to look into yourself and find what you really feel happened. Did he cheat, did you cheat, did he steal, did you steal, did he not talk, did you not talk, etc....whatever you decide on won't really matter, it'll just end the pain a bit quicker. If you can both discuss what happened and what this means for your friendship...without balking or anger or resentment possibly coming into play, then do it. If not, then I suggest you don't talk.

Anyway, go and have a good time after you get over him...don't get a rebound guy...it isn't healthy. Umm...that's all the time I've got for tonight...sorry I can't help more, but good luck!

Answer 3

1. Tell yourself you can be sad later, but not now.
2. Keep busy.
3. Hang out with friends more.
4. Find a new hobby.
5. Don't go to places or do things that remind you of him.

All of this should help. Unfortunately you are not going to be able to stop thinking about him completely. In time, the pain will lessen. Just be patient and KEEP BUSY!

Answer 4

First thing to do is remember your happiness in life is controlled by your heart.
Sadly when your heart gets broken :-( only time can heal this.....
You have control of who you let get close to you, so in the future
try to find a man that shows genuine interest in you and your life.
Remember this if the 1 you love leaves then they never truely loved you..... thus you could never experience true love......
True love is possible
Wait for your True Love and then Happiness will RULE your life,
you can be Happy by yourself too........
I guess what I'm tryin to say is don't stress over a temporary situation..... your heart will heal and eventually you will let another in .....
There are millions o fish in the sea and you just spent time with 1
now its time for you to swim along till another fish you like comes along..... You may have to swim half way round the world but you will find another.......
:-) Good Luck Fishin

Answer 5

There is no easy answer to this question. What I did when my girlfriend broke up was to think that there are other girls out there and this wasn't the end of my life. I also told myself that my now x-gf shouldn't have any influence in my life anymore.
It took two weeks but then the pain slowly started to ease.
But as I said, there is no easy answer to your question and there is no easy way out.
It will hurt in the beginning, regardless what you are doing to get over it.

You will however be happy again, that's a guarantee.

Answer 6

well..... i wish i could tell u how to exactly how to get rid of your pain but sorry hun cant do that all i can say is just have a couple nights out of the week and make those a girl night out and just keep yourself busy for a while i mean really just look at the good things that came out of it wish i could make all the pain go away i have gone thru this to dont worry time will heal your pain and if all else fails find someone new or go see a therapist good luck hun god bless

Answer 7

I'm going thru the same thing, I just try to keep busy, keep my mind occupied. When I feel sad or start to think of him, I call up a friend and I feel so much better. It takes time, you can't just forget someone you loved in a day. Soon the wound will heal and you'll meet someone new.

Answer 8

You just have to accept that it is over. Go ahead and cry. Put away those cards, letters, pictures, etc. Write him a farewell letter, but don't mail it.
Time really doesn't heal all wounds, but in time you will feel better.
Remember, when one door closes another one opens. Consider that he may have been in the way of you meeting your true love.

Answer 9

you need to remove everything that makes you think of that person from your life for a while. Even delete their number out of you phone. Give yourself the cold turkey treatment. Once the pain is gone then you can look at these things as memories rather than things that are missing from your life. Get out and about with friends, do things that you used to do without him.

Answer 10

awww *hugs* i soooo feel you i felt the exact same way a couple of weeks ago and i got so tired of hearing this but it is so true "time will ease your pain" and it will i really felt like i was going to die and i didnt eat or anything...but i bet if you give it a couple weeks things will get better and you never know he might give you a call...also i know you probably dont feel like doing anything because your so sad but just get out even if its taking a drive or stopping over to see a friend it will help i promise *hugs* i hope you feel better