2006-08-14 18:13:31 · 13 answers · asked by fevicryl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, what sort of details and why do you want to know? If you want to know how many men she has slept with and you're going to feel like she's dirty if it's too many and get jealous and such then you are crazy. If you just want to know so that you understand her better then you're not crazy.
2006-08-14 18:18:35 · answer #1 · answered by pamgissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are talking about the details of her sexual past. And if I'm right, then, yes, you are crazy. That can lead to nothing good. Everyone has a past. No matter how brief or how extensive, there's nothing good that can come of you stewing over the details. What you do know, can hurt you. Let it go. She has chosen to be with you, and that's all that really matters. Now, as far as whether or not sex with her is safe, you both should be tested. That's just the way it should be. But no details of either past need to be shared.
2006-08-14 18:22:57 · answer #2 · answered by Rvn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will make you crazy, whats in the past cant be changed, though it does shape a person, as long as it doesn't affect the present then leave it alone, if its having a major effect on the present she needs to seek counseling, been there done that somethings are better left unsaid, leave the skeletons in the closet where they belong, just treat her the best u can to make her present and future happy,
2006-08-14 18:22:45 · answer #3 · answered by martin_werner2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your reason of wanting to know? Will it do any good for your relationship?
You are not her past. If she tells you her past and you do not like her it, will you punished her because you weren't there?
Becareful, to put your fingure in a crack, you might get bitten by the snakes in the crack.
2006-08-14 18:20:52 · answer #4 · answered by Farani P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are. past is past, all what you need to know is the present and the future. You could lose her if you kept pushing to know about her past. As long as she shows love and care for you , throw all the past behind your back and enjoy what you have now....
2006-08-14 18:20:14 · answer #5 · answered by oriental_dr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not crazy, only interested and would care to know...gf's past is yours too once she tells! think it's an added bonus for the relationship...nonetheless...if she got a witch family background or a sorceress perhaps....bwahahaa!!! u got to run!
2006-08-14 18:23:29 · answer #6 · answered by lyn_sc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOPE, I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 5 YEARS AND I STILL ASK HIM ALL KINDS OF QUESTIONS ABOUT WHAT HE WAS LIKE BEFORE HE MET ME--IT'S INTERESTING. CURIOSITY IS A STRANGE THING, AND I FIND IT FASINATING TO IMAGINE HOW HE WAS WITH ANYONE ELSE OR HOW HE USED TO PARTY ALL THE TIME OR HOW HE USED TO LIVE WITH ROOMMATES OR PREVIOUS JOBS. JUST TO KNOW WHAT HE DID BEFORE ME-- I DON'T KNOW, BUT I DON'T THINK YOU'RE CRAZY AS LONG AS ANYTHING LIKE THAT DOESN'T MAKE YOU JEALOUS.
2006-08-14 18:22:44 · answer #7 · answered by Work-N-Hrd-2-Mk-It 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I'm always curious about my g/f's pasts. Just don't make a huge issue out of it. If she doesn't want to tell you, don't push it.
2006-08-14 18:17:45 · answer #8 · answered by SC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Its nice knowing eachothers past it can make you closer as long as its nothing disturbing like she murdered someone or something like that.lol.
2006-08-14 18:17:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, but if you want to know her sexual past besides the regular precautions from STD's that's would be plain morbid curiousiy.
2006-08-14 18:27:52 · answer #10 · answered by Nia24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋