i've had like three guys tell me, its a shame we never got together. when in reality at one point they had a very good chance and they decided not to take it. some guys i've even told outright how i feel, then later they decide that they wanted a relationship. they make it seem like the opportunity was never there. when it was there, they decided to be rude to me, ignore me or just turn me down. why do they always wait till your not interested? and then they turn it around to make it look like it was not thier fault we never got together?
2006-08-14 18:00:04 · 5 answers · asked by anonymous 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i mean a guy must be crazy to think i'd want to date him after he rejected me.
2006-08-14 18:01:39 · update #1
Baby, you're much too fast!
Guys, at least the ones that are worth having, need to find a way to approach you themselves, in their own time. You cannot lead the dance or play 'queen' and tap your subjects on the head and tell them when to jump or how high; they have to at least think they initiated the contact, decided to go after you, or it won't work out.
So why not be a little more mysterious? It won't hurt to be less brazen about your feelings or his chances. Let the man do the work of trying to make you his girl, instead of you jumping all over him before he has a chance.
Good luck!
2006-08-14 18:08:14 · answer #1 · answered by nora22000 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
*Guys are notoriously immature compared to girls of the same age - and often they take a long time to get their act together.
They also can be shy and awkward and selfconscious when it comes to girls.
Moreover, everyone has regrets; hindsight is 20/20, but many people just can't make themselves do something new and unpredictable - like beginning a relationship with someone. It's a huge step into the unknown, after all.
Chalk it up to experience but don't lose any sleep over it. After all, it's their loss, right? And nobody is at fault.
PS -just had a great idea - no-fault relationship insurance. What do you think?
2006-08-15 01:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by kerangoumar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is what the percived if i getv the imprssion that thir is not any interstb i do not bother and just am amicalble towards you . Why would Iwant ot ask a person out if I do noth think I have a chance it could beyour bodly language 70 % of our comuncation is body language . If you give off signals that say go away I am not intersed example crossed arm not looking in the eyes . staning at a ditnce much grater than about two feet . if you are sitting tighly crossed legs and folded arms . areall signs ofdisinterss. . try asking a female friend to help you out . flirting and dropin a verabl hint leaning close . touchin sofltly on a shoulder or knee cap not seductively but friendly and gentally .
looking at them in the eye ect
But if you do not give usa idea that wehavea hnce we wont ask as it is a waste of time to ask a person whoyou believe is going reject you
2006-08-15 01:10:37 · answer #3 · answered by crps_1964 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Male ego.
2006-08-15 01:05:31 · answer #4 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your immature attitude!
2006-08-15 01:08:16 · answer #5 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋