Here's the situation: Im a 21/f with no boyfriend and havent had one in ... forever. So I think im in a point now where i can have a serious relationship. So there's this guy that says he likes me, and calls me every night, and leaves notes for me, etc.. And i kinda like him (i need to know him a little more to be sure) so i dont know how to act or be with him. No idea what mom and family is going to say, what my friends will think.... and besides, I work with his ex girlfriend so that might be weird too.. What do u think? Any advice?
2006-08-14 17:59:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be yourself with him. Don't be uncomfortable around him. Remember that you're friends and should be open about your feelings. As far as the ex-girlfriend, treat her with kindness. Your relationship doesn't involve her so keep it that way.
2006-08-14 18:04:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is the kinda like enough to take this chance, will he be worth all the mess you are going to get into? There must be some guy with no baggage's.
you will not be alone forever there is someone for you believe me there is always someone.... when the time comes you'll find your soul mate
good luck
2006-08-15 01:05:51 · answer #2 · answered by WICCA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In most cases, when you haven't had a significant other in a while you tend to become clingy too quick. My best advise is be careful of that and also don't get to antsy or to particular. And are your friends or parents dating him. The last guy I dated before I found the man of my dreams was an atheist and my parents hated him but they eventually learned to accept him
2006-08-15 01:05:34 · answer #3 · answered by sweetiesallie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be brave and ask him out for coffee after work some time, or ask him to join you for lunch so that you two can talk and get to know each other. If your nervous, take it easy, because if he's really interested in you, he woun't push or hurry you along...or at least I hope not. Good luck!
2006-08-15 01:07:02 · answer #4 · answered by Wren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know him better and see where things go. I am sure that if he is a good guy and treats you well... your friends and family will approve :)
2006-08-15 01:04:58 · answer #5 · answered by StormScorch 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds stupid but it's really true,
don't get into a relationship just to be in one.
be yourself, no really be yourself, say what you want, do what you want, etc.
stand your ground for what you really believe and respect him (who ever he turns out to be) for what he believes.
don't worry about what others think
I know they are all cliches but they become cliches because in they long run they always turn out to be right.
2006-08-15 01:07:28 · answer #6 · answered by hogie0101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know the guy. See if you like him. If you do, my best friend says "if you love someone, you can deal with obstacles like parents and friends."
2006-08-15 01:14:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just want him b/c u want a boyfriend. u say u KINDA like him but then you also say you want to b in a serious relationship. so if you want to b serious with a man, get a man that you feel like you like a lot more than "kind of". comprende?
2006-08-15 01:05:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Follow you heart, act yourself, be comfortable with who you are - he obviously likes you. Are you comfortable with him? When you are, go to the next level. Good luck, enjoy your life 2dmax.
2006-08-15 01:07:34 · answer #9 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it. get to know him. u guys could hit it off and it could be amazing. he seems to be nice and its pretty obvious that he likes you. good luck
2006-08-15 01:05:55 · answer #10 · answered by failurbydsign427 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋