What is this seemingly growing thing about women and male "friends" . I was in a relationship and they would call and talk for hours I was polite and asked if that could change It made me feel as if I was not even there . If I got the least bit botherd by all these so called men " friends " i was told Iwas jelaous and suffocating her . that she has a right to men "friends" they are harmless nothing is going on . Why tak with them for hours when we are together and what was going on when I am not ther what it with cards gifts and visting ?
Iam a man and I know full well what thease ":friends" are thinking . She is going to see what a nice guy I am and dump him
1 it is emotional betrayal . 2,it is inconsiderate. #,the guy you have a boyfriend and please stop calling so much .
Lets face it they really are not friends but guys .who want a date but lack the guts to ask ! .
If am intersted I ask, If they say no I move on forgetting them and they me
2006-08-14 17:45:51 · 9 answers · asked by crps_1964 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh this relationship is long over . But trust me those "friends are not "freinfs they are hoping you will se what a nice guy they are and dump thopur BF for them . Hey we have feeliongs ot . i t migh be old fasoined but guysDO NO LIE male "friends we know what they are up to
2006-08-14 17:57:17 · update #1
Oh I am not isecure at all nothing to do with that I am sure you would not mid if oithe women sent your BF if you yhave on stuff and claaed all the time . he lets I stil think these male freinds are the guys who are to afraid to ask a woam,n out . Iask and yes or not it is ok all i am thinkoing at that pint is hey she is intersting Ill see what happpens
Sound like alot Of PC stuff here to I know full well guys cannot have women "friends"
2006-08-14 18:03:18 · update #2
OH Nice flame there Mr Spock
But if that is trend I am sure glad I have no part in it .let me guess you are one of those guys who has lots of Women " friends" but never gets a date and is to afraid to ask .
All that comes from thease triangles as tey arecalled is hurt for all partiesand every 0ne loses. no onewins find your ownGF !
2006-08-15 11:38:06 · update #3
I wish I could choos two best ansswers as I liked both Mat'ts and NativeAmericabueaty'd I chose hers only because she rightly aded men do the same thing
Yes she is a goofball allegedly since we end out "relationship " she is married I am wonder if she still is and how long it will last no one male or female is going ot tolerate that . unless they are a real pushover and desperate .
To be in a relationship
In a relationship being faithful is more than just not having sex outside of it and no it is not Trendy to let women do their own thing it is called being a doormat .
And yes those "friends " are really after you not a friendship unless they are homosexual and really have no interest in the opposite sex at all
2006-08-17 03:32:33 · update #4
it's not just women and male "friends", it also happens with men and female "friends. I agree, I am a woman and usually know how women think or how they can take words, just as guys know what men are usually thinkin and tell the woman they are in the relationship with. Still they don't see it when they do it. Instead it's different when it's them who have them.
2006-08-14 17:56:45 · answer #1 · answered by nativeamericantay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what you are is insecure and jealous. You want her to stop living her life and have nothing and nobody but you around. All you are going to do is lose your gf but that would be doing her a favor. And you are full of crap about the guy thing, I've had several best friends that were guys and nothing ever happened and never would. Just because you aren't capable of seeing women as anything other than sexual partners doesn't mean other men aren't more advanced than you are.
2006-08-14 17:53:18 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it is the current trend, to openly have men friends. women have always had them but kept their relationships quiet. my neices both have crowds of male friends and theyre all pretty respectable guys. you admit youre old fashioned, so much so you dont get the worlds past you by. just bc it is your policy to move on and not remain friends w/ladies, is your choice. and most likely why you never got anywhere with them in the 1st place is bc you are unwilling to accept another's ways that are different from your own. you say cmon guys only want one thing. so for you to believe this, it means every lady you come across you have but one agenda in mind? cmon dude youre a guy (not very much of a man, or gentleman for sure) but def a guy. i have had many lady friends who were no more than that. they are more like sisters. which im sure you hit on yours too bc cmon youre a guy. lighten up, it isnt the end of the world, it is what it is and you will find a lady who completely agrees with you on this.
2006-08-15 10:09:54 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Spock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you've got some strange female friends. See, most of my friends are male, but I was also raised with nothing but male cousins and an older brother, so I am a tomboy through and through. Male friends to me are just that, friends.
2006-08-14 17:52:33 · answer #4 · answered by Wren 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
there's no such thing as men and women being just friends. not unless they have tried dating and it failed or they have known each other for a long time. secondly it is inconsiderate, if she want's to talk to them for hours while in a relationship she should date them. it's true they are chasing after you're girl and she probably likes the attention. they might not have the guts or she might be secretly or unconsciously leading them on. get to the bottom of it, or just kill them...
2006-08-14 17:53:07 · answer #5 · answered by matt 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I like my male friends (they have interesting perceptions) and while my girl friends are softer and not as decisive about issues I need sharp clear perspective on.
usually I have found that guys are a lot more honest and blunt about things.
2006-08-14 17:51:39 · answer #6 · answered by darkangel1111 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
from experience i have male friends..but what your saying sounds to serious.. because i always thought that if they were real friends..they would understand i wanted to do more with my man than them..and the guy friends i have do understand...maybe your jus not important to her and you need to break it off..
2006-08-14 17:52:53 · answer #7 · answered by Shey_Shorrrty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your better off without her. She sounds like a goofball.
2006-08-14 17:58:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do not mind ,it is up to her to stay with you or any one -else.Grant her this and you should look for someone else.
2006-08-14 17:56:27 · answer #9 · answered by khan a 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋