I have been with my bf for a year now and everytime he asks for sex I turn him down because it does not seem right to me......am I bein dumb?? What should I do??
2006-08-14 17:44:56 · 26 answers · asked by lollipop lips 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't ever do anything your not ready to do. If a guy tries to pressure you, don't fall for it. Pressure him back. Let him know that he is lucky just to be in your company. Empower yourself. Don't be one of those girls that will do anything so their boyfriend wont leave them. You sound young, believe me when I tell you right now your boyfriend might mean everything to you. But you will change and meet new people. So again don't do anything that your not ready for. You have a so many choices ahead of you, some you can only give away once. Don't do it until you are ready. Good luck and never compromise yourself.
2006-08-14 18:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by Teslajuliet 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are a hero, is not easy to do what you have done, if he really loves you he'll wait as long as he has to. Nowadays are not easy, What about if you become pregnant? What the 2 of you will do? A whole life wasted it for may be 30 minutes of pleasure. Keep strong and don't give up. I'm glad there are ladies who prefer to use their brain than give up to the pressure. I would it proud of you if I would be your dad.
2006-08-14 17:52:57 · answer #2 · answered by Javy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok this my sound insane, but just keep the relationship going. I know its crazy, but not every guy wants sex. Its a stereotpye. I've been with my Girlfriend for 2 years and we're happy without sex. So what, you dont want sex, if he thinks its that important then dumb his butt.
2006-08-14 17:49:51 · answer #3 · answered by Tech 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you dont feel comfortable having sex with him and he keeps asking you. Whats the point in the relationship anyways. Cause hes probably going to go out and find another girl that will give him what he wants and just dump you like your nothing. So just end it with him before you get cheated on and hurt.
2006-08-14 17:55:03 · answer #4 · answered by age 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Haha, I'm a guy, but respect is a big thing with me. If you don't feel comfortable doing it, don't do it. Tell him that. You're not dumb, you are just uncomfortable with the "situation".
2006-08-14 17:48:52 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say no and punch him.
If you start doing stuff you don't wanna, then it won't be fun or great anymore.
Find a better hobby for the both of you, for real, hes one fish in the sea.
2006-08-14 17:52:16 · answer #6 · answered by adklsjfklsdj 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not being dumb. Youre being smart. You obviously know that your not ready to do anything yet. If he can not accept that for an answer, tell him to hit the bricks.
2006-08-14 17:51:04 · answer #7 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you may be realizing you two are loosing the spark. If he has to ask for sex, that is an indication he feels something is off too.
2006-08-14 17:50:54 · answer #8 · answered by Bugs Malone 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's all about what you want girl if he can't wait until you are ready move on because if thats all he cares about than once he is satified he'll move on anyway.
2006-08-14 17:50:47 · answer #9 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 02:31:50 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋