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My life very messed up right now, I'm doing so bad in school, i think i flunked a year, i go to sleep with fear, concern with problems, my mom hates me cause im doing so bad in school, i'm lazy but i work when i have to, i suck at math, i rude, my dad is angry at me for being lazy, i go to church and i pray to GOD to get my life on the right track, i hate being lazy, i dont think college will even be an option for me, i get picked on alot, i know there are people out that have it a million times worse, but will GOD help me? will he get through these stressful times? will he get my life straightened out? will he help me become a hard worker? will he have mercy on me and arrange my life? i fear that there are more hardships up ahead,i feel that i still have to suffer a little bit more *sigh*.

2006-08-14 17:42:21 · 20 answers · asked by GhostBoy 1 in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

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Everybody has problems in his life; your parents have theirs too.
You should learn to know what are exactly your problems and how to solve them.
You can also pray God to give you knowledge and strength to bear the problems until they are solved by yourself.
If you know not how to get real knowledge about these matters, ask your parents, your teachers and your friends.
For example, as you said, one of your problems is laziness; this is not only a problem; it is a sin. No real human being allows himself to be lazy.
You have a body, you must train it and use it for a good purpose. You have a mind, you must use it to get knowledge to conduct a decent life and later to build your own family.
You have a soul to enjoy commnion with God and receive His divine bestowals.
If you don't develop and use all the great potentialites at your disposal, you are really ungateful to your parents and to God.
So, little by little, please learn to know the real purpose of your life, then you will have the interest to work hard and your laziness will no longer exist.
Pray for your success and happiness.

2006-08-15 03:04:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Half your problem is that you think some magical being up in the sky is going to fix all your problems for you, while continuing to be lazy and not doing anything to fix your own problems. You have to believe in YOU, YOU are the only one who can turn your life around for the better. Get up off the church pew, put one foot in front of the other, go find a job, and learn what it is to work hard. Through working you will learn how to become a "hard worker", "god" will not just sprinkle some magic fairy powder on you that will make you a good worker. You have to learn these things for yourself.

2006-08-14 18:22:59 · answer #2 · answered by jellybean24 5 · 0 0

Ive been trying to follow Gods ways for about four years now and at times certain things start happening that have no logical sense and the only explanation is without a doubt, God. You know that he can do anyting for you too. Because believe me pal its nothing I did or can do on my own, I mean the things that im talking about. My marriage was screwed and my money situation was really bad and now it isnt and my marriage is doing better today too. I cant emphasize enough that it is nothing that can be explained , but in my heart I know that i know for sure that it was God.
And the best part is if he did it for me he can do it for you. God doesnt pick and choose that way, If your a willing partner with God he will be there 100per cent.

2006-08-14 18:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by Catt 4 · 1 0

I KNOW THAT GOD WILL HELP YOU. GOD KNOWS THE DESIRES OF OUR HEARTS AND HE HAS HEARD YOUR PRAYERS, EVEN THOUGH YOU MAY FEEL THAT HE HASN'T ANSWERED THEM YET. THE MERE FACT THAT YOU RECOGNIZE THAT YOU CAN'T DO IT ALL ALONE AND THAT YOU DO NEED GOD'S INTERVENTION IN YOUR LIFE IS THE FIRST STEP. HE'S ALREADY HELPING YOU...YOU'RE ALIVE AND WELL, YOU CAN SPELL, AND OBVIOUSLY COMPREHEND THE SIMPLE THINGS IN LIFE OR YOU WOULDN'T BE ON HERE ASKING ANYTHING! JUST CHILL OUT AND STOP BEATING YOURSELF UP. PRAY FOR MORE WISDOM, KNOWLEDGE, AND UNDERSTANDING...HELP OTHERS AROUND YOU. I FIND THAT WHEN I PRAY FOR OR ENCOURAGE OTHERS, THEN MY PROBLEMS OR ISSUES SEEM MINOR COMPARED TO THEIRS. IT'S REALLY NOT AS BAD AS YOU THINK. YOU'LL LOOK BACK ON THIS NIGHT A YEAR FROM NOW AND SAY "WOW, GOD REALLY DID AND STILL IS HELPING ME." GET SOME SLEEP, MAYBE HE'LL DO MORE WITHOUT YOUR INPUT, GOD DOESN'T NEED OUR HELP WHEN IT COMES TO OUR LIVES. HE'S THE ONE THAT CREATED US, AND I'M SURE HE KNOWS HOW TO SUSTAIN US. SMILE...IT'LL BE BETTER TOMORROW!

2006-08-14 17:54:23 · answer #4 · answered by CHASE_ME 3 · 0 0

Do Not Worry
25"Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more important than food, and the body more important than clothes? 26Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? 27Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life[b]?

28"And why do you worry about clothes? See how the lilies of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. 29Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. 30If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little faith? 31So do not worry, saying, 'What shall we eat?' or 'What shall we drink?' or 'What shall we wear?' 32For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. 33But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. 34Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.

Footnotes:


Matthew 6:13 Or from evil; some late manuscripts one, / for yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen.

2006-08-14 17:52:55 · answer #5 · answered by papaofgirlmegan 5 · 1 0

Sometimes we have to put WHEELS on our prayers.If you are Born-Again and God is your heavenly Father you have to first get up off that
Blessed Assurance and get to work yourself.God does not bless a
lazy Christian! God is not a sugar daddy in the sky you have to try
yourself and I GUARANTEE if you do He will build you a wonderful life
with all the blessings you can stand.(material things are NOT ALWAYS
A BLESSING) I just pray that my Lord will give you a nudge(that is
probably why your life is miserable now) Just ask Jesus to forgive you the way you have done and to start you on a new adventure HE WILL!
In Christ in Love,
TJ57

2006-08-14 18:30:38 · answer #6 · answered by TJ 57 4 · 0 0

God will only help you if you let him.

Remember he never leaves you, but you do leave him all the time.
Everytime you take on your burdons alone, you have walked away not only with your burdons , but away from God.

Pray to God, to take your burdons, leave them at his feet. As soon as you realize that you have picked any of these burdons back up, go right back into prayer and place them again at his feet. Continue to do this until you find that you are no longer picking your burdons back up.

You will find that as you place more and more of your budons with God, that your life will start to have a more even keel. Pick one area of your life that you are unhappy with and start working on that one area. Thinking about all our shortcomings can oftentimes stun us into non action.

Soon you will see that this area of your life is getting better, then begin to work actively at the next area of your life that you want to make better. Continue to read your bible and learn what God wants from you and about how he wants you to live. As you learn and grow, you will feel the need to live as God wills and not how you were living.

Your self will is what is getting in the way of doing the things that you want out of your life, Only by submitting your life to Gods will, can you change these things. God will help, you need to let him.

2006-08-14 17:55:01 · answer #7 · answered by cindy 6 · 1 0

GOD HELP THOSE WHO HELP THEM SELVES...it is great that you recognize that you have a problem God does work miracles but his holy spirit is not going to come and pick you up off the couch or the bed and make you into hard working it take you own discipline and hard work with the help of the lord knowing that is the one that help you through the tough time for him to help you you have to be willing to help yourself and be discipline and he will guide you and make opportunities for you.keep praying but with a little more effort.

2006-08-14 17:59:21 · answer #8 · answered by gp1 1 · 0 0

I don't mean to be rude but why would god help you get through high school if he won't even help those that are starving? You have to stop depending on invisible beings and start helping yourself.

2006-08-14 18:02:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You have to give it all to God and he will take care of it! When you receive Christ in your heart, you are born again and it is a new life. But, God gave us free will, so we also have to make the right choices. You can do anything through Christ who strengthens you.

2006-08-14 17:48:11 · answer #10 · answered by mcentiremadness 3 · 1 0

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