I have this major crush on this guy. My brother says he has a crush on me. I want to be BF and GF but I don't want to be eager. I would also like tips on keeping him if I get him.
2006-08-14 17:32:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
May I add that I am the most shy person. Asking him to hang out is CRAZY on my half.
2006-08-14 17:46:02 · update #1
Andrea pointed out something. My brother told me that the guy I like has a crush on me, not my brother says he has a crush on me.
2006-08-15 05:55:12 · update #2
"Swim around" so to speak......Ask to hang out at like the mall or something with your bro or his and your friends. Then keep an eye out for how he acts around you vs. other females and then pop the question (just not the marriage one yet) and see if he'd like to go to a movie or lunch or something just the two of you. It can't hurt to even just ask him straight out. If he rejects you, at least you can't say you didn't try. But to play it safe, do your research, watch what he says around you vs other people, how he acts, etc....Or be ballsy and just say hey let's go hang out at the mall or whatever. Good luck.
2006-08-14 17:38:20 · answer #1 · answered by the_wicked_itch_of_the_west 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what real brother?? crush on u? Oh i think u have got him. But real brother is it?? reply back to me. interesting story of yours. Be his Girlfriend and kiss him let him know that u love him. E-mail address liew_andrea@yahoo.com.sg
2006-08-15 00:59:47 · answer #2 · answered by Andrea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting him is the hard part. u just gotta start off slow, casual conversation, but show interest. Always try to make urself available or try to make "dates". eventually he'll get the picture and ask u out. and once he's urs just don't smother him and you should be ok.
2006-08-15 00:37:05 · answer #3 · answered by matt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be you and give him indications that you like him.
2006-08-15 00:39:15 · answer #4 · answered by Hollisterbebe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋