Sorry i hear this statement used a lot, like in "i can't find a good guy..blah blah" what do ya'll mean a good guy?
girls don't like good guys they like confident a**holes...
can anyone back me on this?
2006-08-14 17:21:53 · 20 answers · asked by Jesters Deadd 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
-honest
-down-2-earth
-understanding
-respectful
There really is NO exact definition of the "good guy"...just the guy that will stick around when we're having a bad day. The one that doesn't say we're fat or that we look ugly. The ones that are always there for us. Thats pretty much it.
2006-08-14 17:46:40 · answer #1 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think women today see men as a**holes period so why waste (sorry bad word to use) the time in looking for the nice guy when we'll end up with the loser to begin with? I do agree with you though, for some reason and this may not be the case with EVERY female but some just classify or see every guy to eventually be the jerk and just accept it and date whoever. NOW there are exceptions as when women literally go for the bad boy. Nothing wrong with the bad boy. *LoL* Then again a nice good guy can be toooooooo mushy, I know from my perspective anyways. Toooooooo nice is tooooooooo much of a turn off for some females. Gotta have the nice balance. Easier said then done but yeah that's basically it. Sorry, I'm not sure if it'll help but there you go.
2006-08-14 17:33:33 · answer #2 · answered by the_wicked_itch_of_the_west 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, to be honest that's not true. Have you ever heard the saying a wolf in sheep's clothing. Well some guys hide their true self.Until its to late for the girl. I talk from experience a near death one.I dated a guy and moved in with this guy and everything was fine up until nine months into the relationship it took a turn for the worst and I have never seen eyes that had no emotions what so ever. We are looking for a guy who knows that we like to be respected loved as much as we can love some one who can make a bad day the greatest day with just a look or a sin gal flower. Sensitivity, spontaneous, seance of humor, great personality, romance passion some one who listen and not tones them out. and understanding and most of all some they can trust with anything and everything.
2006-08-14 17:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by bubbles2615 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To begin with, someone who doesn't call us chicks.
Girls might like the confident a's at first, but as soon as we see there is no substance beneath it, we move on.
A good guy is a guy that has substance. He might make us laugh, he might be a complete nerd, or dress wrong, but he has substance. We know that he will still have a personality when he's old and wrinkled. The confident a's will still be trying to impress...they will have missed the fact that we are impressed more by what's going on in your brain and heart than the persona that is shown.
2006-08-14 17:30:05 · answer #4 · answered by Mary D 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good Guys are those guys with a combination of agreeable qualities that aren't outweighed by their disagreeable qualities. Of course every woman's preferred Good Guy package is different. You are probably just an undiscovered a Good Guy. Girls usually don't know what they want. Its all trial and error.
2006-08-14 17:37:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bagging a chick means to have sex with them. He might be dreaming though, to inflate his ego. Most guys don't brag about getting sex in a public place like Facebook, unless he's trying to build up his street cred. That makes me feel that he's lying to everyone. Even if he isn't lying, don't be one of his prey. it isn't worth it. I'm sure you don't want a bad reputation by being labeled a slut by hanging with this guy.
2016-03-27 02:10:04 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, a good guy is someone who will be honest and open with me. Someone that I feel comfortable with, have fun with, someone who doesn't belittle me or use me or lie to me.
I was in an abusive relationship for over 4 yrs and I figure any guy who is real and appreciates me for me is pretty damn good.
2006-08-14 17:26:42 · answer #7 · answered by Lenore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they want someone who is like me but not like me you see I like to spend time stunting motorcycles and snow boarding the girls are like OMG you are so hott and i love the life you live but after being together for a few months they are like all you ever do is ride your motorcycle you never spend time with me and i tell them i am home at night every night they are like its not enough some times they want to go some place so i say ill go and they say OK but I'm not riding on the bike it's raining out I'm all about WTF you knew how i am before we hooked up why are you trying to change me I always dump them just after getting a nut off well they are cleaning them self up i even dumped one well i was draining the nutt i was like oooooohhhh ii ddon't wanna be wiiiith u aaany mmmmmmore oooohh
2006-08-14 17:33:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a good guy to a girl is a nice, caring, loving, always spoling, hot guy who does not act like an imature 6 year old
2006-08-14 17:25:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I concur. They want a subservient, door mat man around the house, a money making head honcho in the workplace, and Long Dong Silver in the bedroom.
2006-08-14 17:28:10 · answer #10 · answered by ricosuarve 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋