My older sister is such a suck up. She walked in on my boyfriend and I making out and she went and told my mom. now my boyfriend and I are not allowed to be alone in the same room anymore even though that my mom already knows we have sex and she is totally cool with it because I don't do it at her house out of respect for her. I think that my sister is just jealous because she hasn't had a boyfriend in a year or so. Now because of her my mom is losing trust for me and my older sister just won't stop tattling. She is 19 and I think she needs to grow up. How can I get her to stop interferring in my relationship and get my mom to trust me again?
2006-08-14 16:56:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Its a difficult situatuion. I know how u mite b feeling. I think ur sister shud learn 2 accept facts. I think she's just being over possessive abt u. Just talk 2 her abt it.ANd hope she understands.
2006-08-14 17:07:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, how old are you? She is 19, she cares for you, wheather you want to see it that way or not. She had every right to tell on you. She is trying to look out for you. You having sex and you say your mother is cool with that? I personally would think not. I have a teenager and IF I ever find out that she has had sex wheather in my home or not she will get the disapplining that she will never forget. What you need to do is gain their trust back by being obedient to them. You still young and you are too young to be messing around with boys. You should be focusing on your education right now rather then them boys. When you finish school and go onto college you get your education completed and then you can mess around all you want. Your sister is just looking out for her little sister and may not want you to get pregnant to early. Wheather you use protection or not. Do you really want to be a child raising a child? Would you really want to put that burden and shame on your family? Think about it.. every situation has a circumstance and every action there is a reaction. Do what is right. Mend things with family and put your priorities first. Forgive and hold no grudges.
2006-08-14 17:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your sister how you feel. If she doesn't want to listen, then take a stab at her integrity.. Ask her why she's still living at home and being a nosy little *beep* if she's 19?
Or, to remain on the nice side, act really innocent and all that nice stuff in front of them. Just hold hands, be very polite, and give them nothing to dish out on you. Eventually they will beleive you don't do anything worth yelling at you for and you will slowly regain your freedom!
2006-08-14 17:04:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your mom already knew it then what was the deal? You said you did not have sex in her house out of respect? Did you lose that respect and have sex in her house?
I don't understand, how it suddenly became a problem unless you did have sex in her house.
2006-08-14 17:16:11 · answer #4 · answered by ETxYellowRose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? i know they are only trying to make sure you dont mess up your life. if you are too young, then you shouldnt even have a boy at your house anyway let alone in the same room alone together. maybe you should think about that.
2006-08-14 17:28:40 · answer #5 · answered by im so yummy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she seriously should STOP or you will mess with her most precious possessions. Also, you can tell her that you will call her friends and tell them that she said wrong things about them. Just keep rrepeating this phrase " You will wish you never messed with me!" Then go tell your parents on her. What do you think of that?
2016-03-27 02:08:40 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with your sister. She should respect your privacy. Siblings have a special bond.
2006-08-14 17:04:09 · answer #7 · answered by Holly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your sister and tell her how you feel about her invading your privacy. Tell her to get a hobbie or something.LOL.
2006-08-14 18:04:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋