For some reason my boyfriend just stopped callng me. Why? I dont even know. I talked to him about 2 weeks ago , everything was fine. We were laughing and talking on the phone like we always do. He also made plans to come pick me up a couple of weeks ago so we could chill but he never followed threw with that. When I called him that day to see why he didnt come pick me up all i got was his stupid voicemail, and he never called me back. Well that was 2 weeks ago and I currently have a man that im talking to. While Out the blue my ex-boyfriend has been texting me all week , and now he has even started calling me. He called me today and basically he told me he has been busy ( i dont know with what) , and he claims that i never call him ( which is a lie) ,and now he wants to know am I talking to any dudes?..why does he seem so interested in me now , when he blew me off for a couple of weeks?? I just dont get it.....
2006-08-14 16:36:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
me and my ex went together for 8 months
2006-08-14 16:52:50 · update #1
get him
2006-08-14 16:40:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I had the same issue (but with a female) where she blew me off for a few weeks and I found out that she had been seeing someone else(having sex) and when that guy got what he wanted he left her, then she tried to come back to me for emotional support. I wouldn't have found out but the other guy was a so called friend of mine. Long story short is that he has someone else he was interested in and thought things would work out and they didn't so he is thinking that you will be there for him still. Which I hope you take advice really well from others and just leave his azz alone and move on. He dosn't respect you if he can't pick up the phone and call every once in a while...just my opinion..
2006-08-14 16:46:52 · answer #2 · answered by aj12251974 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, guys are weird like that. They scare very easy and if he was falling in love faster than what he would have liked sometimes you won't hear from them.But, you will be able to tell but if he asked you if you where talking to any dudes that could be a red flag and you could be making him feel better about talking to or even going out with other girls it depends on how well you know each other. Best advice tell him you are not ready to be back and you just want to be friends and see how that goes if it works out and he sticks around he means what he says . But if you don't hear from him after that he didn't mean a word . but don't tell him that just tell him about wanting to be friends and see how it goes then you will know what to do give it a month. Time will tell.It always dose
2006-08-14 16:50:43 · answer #3 · answered by bubbles2615 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The dude sounds like a real loser, babe. Take it from the Motor
City TOMCAT, he's not worth your time, girl, I know his type,
because in my younger days, I was that type of a--clown,
love chicks like you, dump chicks like you, he's playing you
like a harp from hell, you deserve better than a player like your ex.
He got blown off by a chick himself, but he's gotta learn he can't
love & leave like a honeybee. A real lover would have marched
himself right back to your side and been a man about it.
You got a new man, you don't need a jerk coming back on the
rebound. Guys like him are two cents a hundred.
2006-08-14 16:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He might have met someone the time he was seeing you and thought it would work out with that person but obviously it didn't and then you would be his back up. Don't be his scape goat. forget him. Keep talking to your other guy friend. He can't just stop talking to you and them call when he's good and ready. Don't fall into his trap. Have pride in yourself. He did you dirty by not calling you for that long. Think of it this way it's his loss and to bad for him. Best of luck with you new guy!!
2006-08-14 16:46:49 · answer #5 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i been thru that.. think of this he may have a lover gf is involved and he is guilty or hes turning bi or gay or he aint ready for heavy stuff right now cant handle it or he is slow slow learner.. u know like a real problem cant go any farther and goes dormant i hate that .. or he is scared..of going to serious.. to quick as he has plans to go to college etc something of sorts.. i say ur gut instinct trell u u shoudl be pissed off and he is disrespectful to ur freindship at any level at the moment u like feeling like garbage beign treated like ur an on call hoe???liek ur a back up when his lover or who or wotever failed or hes bored etc so to speak if that can be the case .. it all sucks life is now going by fast u need to live for ur self and love urself with respect.. u deserve more .. dont be a doormat.. have him leave u a voicemail be unavailable to him dont bow down like a merciful queen u done nothing wrong.. ur setting a pattern up for future to accept him back and all others - my bf said once the same dam thing never got ur message or some ill excuse. perhaps we know same guy LOL braindead cerebral palsy lack of oxygen to the brain birth defect lol .. something aint right ey ? well kick him out of the game
2006-08-14 16:46:46 · answer #6 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My guess is that he blew you off so that he could hook up with another girl and now he's finished diddling her or she blew him off and now he's back barking up your tree. He's a player. He isn't suitable boyfriend material. Reliable boyfriends dont just stop calling or make plans to come pick you up then not show up, or not answer their phone, or return your calls. Would kick him to the curb. He's just playing with you.
2006-08-14 16:46:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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This is probably the most important part. With texting, you can stop and think about what you want to say to your ex at each step of the way. Instead of reacting emotionally, you can take your time, figure out the right thing to say (I’ll give you most of it), and be strategic with your ex without saying something that you’ll regret.
2016-04-28 10:22:24 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy probably had another girl he was interested in. He then found out you were with another, now wants to come back into your life. A guy who may blow me off, I'd stay in the wind. If he didn't give a hoot about you then, he may not later. Enjoy your new male friend.
2006-08-14 16:44:09 · answer #9 · answered by D L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont fall for it girl unless he willing to bend over backwards for you cause my ex does that all the time only calls when its convient for him...
Like he only gives you a call when he has noone else
Plus he knows your there and your'll pick up its just weird how they do that but yeah
dont do it just talk to the guy your talkin to
2006-08-14 16:41:46 · answer #10 · answered by lovergirl86 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 06:58:33 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋