I met a man that said he was looking for a relationship on the personals. After months of contact, he dropped the bomb that he was only looking for a casual sexual liason and asked if i would agree stating the ad said he wanted a relationship to attract women. I refused and we kept in touch because he said the more he got to know me the more attached he got and we could get somewhere 1/2 yr. later I wanted to move forward & he said he just wanted to be friends & did not want to hear that he led me on. I blew him of a couple weeks and my next call was to tell him I don't want friends w/benefits, don't want just friends either, am ticked he led me on for months before the initial warning and unless he wants a relationship I am done. He is really, really stubborn and doesn't like being told what to do, but I was at my wits'end and thinking I had nothing left to lose. Was it wise to turn down the friendship bid and issue an ultimatum?
2006-08-14
16:32:44
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