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I met a man that said he was looking for a relationship on the personals. After months of contact, he dropped the bomb that he was only looking for a casual sexual liason and asked if i would agree stating the ad said he wanted a relationship to attract women. I refused and we kept in touch because he said the more he got to know me the more attached he got and we could get somewhere 1/2 yr. later I wanted to move forward & he said he just wanted to be friends & did not want to hear that he led me on. I blew him of a couple weeks and my next call was to tell him I don't want friends w/benefits, don't want just friends either, am ticked he led me on for months before the initial warning and unless he wants a relationship I am done. He is really, really stubborn and doesn't like being told what to do, but I was at my wits'end and thinking I had nothing left to lose. Was it wise to turn down the friendship bid and issue an ultimatum?

2006-08-14 16:32:44 · 4 answers · asked by Wildfire 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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If you weren't looking for the same things then I say yes it was wise, because he was probably still trying for the casual sex when you were still looking for the relationship.

2006-08-14 16:39:09 · answer #1 · answered by mel_a_can 3 · 0 0

This is way too much trouble. Friendships are supposed to make your life better not bring cr*p into it. Stop doing this it's stupid.

2006-08-14 23:38:48 · answer #2 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0 0

Hell Yes Girl! F*uck buddies are easy to come by.........perhaps if he had just come out and said it to begin with........

I know this will piss off some guys but.........most guys want to be friends with benefits.........

2006-08-15 01:17:00 · answer #3 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0 0

Yeah you did the right thing. He's probably married too.

2006-08-14 23:49:03 · answer #4 · answered by No More 7 · 1 0

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