2006-08-14 16:31:51 · 29 answers · asked by the5500 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Normal is relative...maybe not by society, but good for you, or whoever you are referring to!
2006-08-14 16:35:54 · answer #1 · answered by yoohoosusie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's COMPLETELY normal. Adolescence affects everybody differently. Just as some girls start their period at 10 and others at 16, some girls want to start kissing later than others.
The thing about adolescence is that everything you can see going on with your body -- getting a figure for girls, voices breaking and getting facial hair for guys -- is only the tip of the iceberg. New research indicates that during adolescence, the structure of the brain itself changes to get people ready for adulthood. (Something else: in adolescence, your body's clock changes and it really IS more natural for you to want to stay up till 4 AM and sleep till 2 PM.)
The response to the idea of kissing or other contact between opposite sexes is something that undergoes a RADICAL change between roughly 10 and 17. My 9-year-old son still closes his eyes in kissing scenes in movies; his 15-year-old sister had a boyfriend about six months ago, tried kissing him a couple of times, decided it was still disgusting and hasn't tried since.
As for me -- when I was about 12 I heard about "French kissing" for the first time and thought it sounded absolutely disgusting. When I was almost 15 I kissed my girlfriend (who'd just turned 16 and had dated some before me) for the first time, and when she parted her lips just slightly, it was the most exciting thing that had ever happened to me. So somewhere in that 2-1/2 year period, something BIG changed for me.
So if a girl (or a boy, for that matter) doesn't feel ready for kissing at 14, 15, or even 16, that's perfectly normal, and her boyfriend needs to respect that. And it has NOTHING to do with how developed her body is, it's all inside the brain. So you can't tell by how she looks -- only by how she looks BACK...
2006-08-14 23:54:17 · answer #2 · answered by Scott F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's normal because we all have akward moments when we feel we aren't ready for things. I mean I didn't have my first real kiss(tongue and all until I was 16. And it sort of just happened. I didn't plan for it and the guy and I were not goin together. He was a guy I had known since kindergarten. And I dated him when I was 5th and 7th grade. And I could tell it was his first real kiss too because we both didn't know what we were doin exactly and we kept bumpin into each others teeth.
2006-08-14 23:42:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol I'm sorry but 15.2? You really had to tell us that (the .2 part) oh and no you would want your first kiss to be perfect
2006-08-14 23:37:12 · answer #4 · answered by Sammie Lee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very normal, don't do anything you dont want to, a first kiss is special and shouldnt be done because of social pressures that will only lead you to regret it later on.
2006-08-14 23:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by bumbleleigh 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal if you are taught morals kissing always leads to more and more leads to trouble until you are ready.Do not let anyone talk you into anything you are not ready for,no matter how they feel .YOU MUST BE READY and I don't think 15 is ready look around there are a lot of guy's and girls who are not ready to leap into anything use your head not your feeling
2006-08-14 23:38:53 · answer #6 · answered by Jimmie W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait so your 15 years old? and you hav a boyfriend? and you dont even want him to kiss you.
no it not normal because most people are attracted to thier boyfriends and want to be sexual with them. and kissing is just the first step. i not saying to have sex with the guy, but not even a kiss? sounds to me that you either dont like him as much as you should, or your scared that your first kiss might be terrible or not live up to what you hope it to be like. a first kiss isnt to special. my advice? kiss him and get it over with. if it truly sucks, try it again. if it still sucks, then either your not into it, OR your not attracted to the guy. hope this helps.
2006-08-14 23:38:12 · answer #7 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely. I purposely wanted to wait until after I turned 16 so I could be "Sweet Sixteen." I still ended up waiting until I was almost 17 before I finally gave it away. It was something special to me. So.. if you wanna hold out giving it away.. it's absolutely fine.
2006-08-14 23:36:28 · answer #8 · answered by Emerilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is very normal. Enjoy being a teen take things easy and dont rush, you have alot of time before u have to push the issue.
2006-08-14 23:37:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes... save it for the right person at the right time... and it might feel akward because it is ur first kiss and it might not be like the movies and be the most perfect kiss u've ever got
2006-08-14 23:36:41 · answer #10 · answered by liberos-are-fun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all. he should respect you for wanting to save your first kiss for a special time. if you dont want to kiss him because youre not attracted to him, you should probably end the relationship and be friends instead
2006-08-14 23:37:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋