HELP!!!!!!!!
Ok this may sound odd, but here it goes. Thare is this guy at school how I really like. And everytime im near him, talking to him, or thinking about him I feal like i need to be with him. My friends say he likes me back, and I really want to ask him out. And i broke up with guy few months back and said i wasen't ready for a relation ship. But I am, i lied to him. He pushed it to far. And now if i ask this other guy out i feal like im going to brake his heart. The other guy (that i like) is always thare for me, and caring about me. What should i do
ask him out and brake the ones guy heart
Or
never ask him out and live in messery of that i diden't
I JUST FEAL LIKE HE"S THE ONE FOR ME EVEN THOUGH WERE IN GRADE 8...
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-14 16:31:03 · 10 answers · asked by Rain-- 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The one guy who i went out with thinks im not ready so he thinks im going to go back out with him when im ready..
2006-08-14 16:49:32 · update #1
O and im great at spelling i typed that in about a minute!
2006-08-14 16:54:32 · update #2
I LIKE ONE GUY ( the guy i like!)
2006-08-14 16:55:31 · update #3
In grade 8 every has a boy friend... And if anyone says im to young then thats coming out of a mothers mouth...
2006-08-14 17:08:06 · update #4
It is soooooo sad that my tax dollars are not going into education.
2006-08-14 16:36:21 · answer #1 · answered by m j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say that if you like him then go for it. Only reason is because no-one is promised tomorrow and later on you will regret not doing something that you really wanted to do. You may break the other guys heart but I am sure it will happen plenty more times.But if it has been a couple months then yeah ..don't hesitate. I did and wish I would have done alot of stuff different now.. just my opinion
2006-08-14 23:39:41 · answer #2 · answered by aj12251974 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the new guy out. Just cause you go out with someone doesn't mean its a life long commitment. If the old guy says... I thought you didn't want a relationship tell him this isn't a relationship its a date and leave it at that you don't owe the old guy and explaination since I'm sure you already told him why you broke up with him. You did tell him it was because he kept 'pushing you' right? Well then your free to be. IF it breaks his heart then thats on him. If he hadn't 'pushed you' then you would still be together... or not.
2006-08-14 23:38:23 · answer #3 · answered by kevinswheat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with the guy u like. If ur ex or the other guy say's nething to u then just tell him that u like the other guy and tell him that u r now ready for a relationship. Ask ur ex if ya'll could be friends or something.
2006-08-14 23:39:47 · answer #4 · answered by wemsamandab93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look ..your in the 8 th grade.. your to young for a comittment ...and thats what you told the old guy.. right .. well thats true.. going out with someone else may be a good way to grow with out hurting yourself... you have a long ways ahead of you and you shouldn't be in a hurry to grow up.. enjoy new things and be mindfull of the people around you...think of your future and what your parents may ask of you,..they know what your going through even though you might not think so...remember.. you might find something or someone better or you might realise the old guy may be the best thing that ever happened to you...either way, take your time in life because it sneaks up fast.. good luck..
2006-08-14 23:56:40 · answer #5 · answered by back1breaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you do is you ask out the first guy and if it doesnt work out or he says no then ask out the other guy. he will probably say yes since hes always there for you and stuff like that so just work with the first guy and then move on to the second guy. and i know how you feel. im in the same situation!!!!! and im in the same grade. i went through one relationship but it felt weird and i thought i wasnt ready. but now i really want to go out with the guy i like. and there is this other guy i like who is always there for me and i dont want to break his heart, confusing i know. so just ask him out and see what happens from there. one guy will be the one. and if neither are there are more fish in the sea......trust me on that one.
2006-08-14 23:39:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY NOT WHAT MAKES OTHER PEOPLE HAPPY. THE RELATIONSHIP THAT YOU HAD WITH YOUR PAST BOYFRIEND IS OVER SO IF YOU END UP ASKING OUT THIS NEW GUY IT SHOULDN'T MATTER TO HIM BECAUSE BOTH OF YOU'S FINISHED AGES AGO. DON'T DO SOMETHING THAT YOU ARE GOING TO REGRET JUST GO FOR IT!!! IF YOUR EX SAYS SOMETHING ABOUT YOU GOING INTO ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP JUST TELL HIM THAT IF YOU'S WERE BOTH MEANT TO BE THEN YOU'S WOULD STILL BE TOGETHER NOW!!!!
2006-08-14 23:43:24 · answer #7 · answered by pqr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask the guy out and tell the other guy that you finnaly got it all together and u liked him so u gave it a try and see if he once to be youre friend
2006-08-14 23:40:32 · answer #8 · answered by jessie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew you were in grade school in your writing. // and how could you be so involved with not one but two? I hope you are not a Democrat.
2006-08-14 23:44:26 · answer #9 · answered by Cool Breze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the 8th grade and i love my boyfriend, we have been going out for 7months and we have both said i love you and i hope we are together forever
2006-08-14 23:39:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋