I absolutely have not met any American men who want to commit or who really understand what love is!All they want to do is use & abuse!& most drink to celebrate anything!Or they smoke pot & take pills.All the ight age christian men are taken!
Anyone else have this problem?
Don't reccomend dating sites.They all want money & are all full of hooey!
2006-08-14 16:30:10 · 12 answers · asked by Frogmama 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i agree i looked in UK but men are lovers of themselves it is written in revelations sadly but some are christian and yea they are nice but then again they can be a bit uptigth boring or not daring in sexapades in bed with the 2 of ya together so.. or they are taken men are lazy now as the women gave sex away for free to easy for them to say no to committment.. for sure.. keep looking in ur areas of hobbies or interests dont put out right away.. its sad and no my god dating sites are the worse and most dangerous i know this for a fact..creeps prey on that stuff..u would be surprised when u r not looking one will pop up with charm a real man who has same needs..u have to let some open know ur goals buy 1st ur self what it is u dont want is easier to say what u do want.. the whole world is same .. so look hard have a high standard.
2006-08-14 16:38:15 · answer #1 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iam american but my father is american and my mother is british so I hold a british passport as well. I grew up overseas and now live in the US so I think I can see both sides of the coin. American or overseas, both have their pitfalls. Many women overseas find american men better because overseas men are definitly more sexist and american men try harder to please. On the other side american men often find foriegn women better because they are not trying to be equal at everything, understand the differences between men and women and the two fit better. Each bring something to the whole. American or foriegn is not your problem. It's you and I mean no offence. Women of all ages are attracted to the bad boy and this is you. Then they sit around and wonder why all of the good ones are taken. Well you just have to know where to look. The good ones are busy doing things and are out there and just meet people through work or friends. Internet dating is crap and shallow. If you hang out with people in sucessful relationships they just naturally want you to be happy as well. They know you and the other person and just put you in the same room with someone of similar values. I wasn't looking but recently someone told me they knew someone who would be perfect for me. Turns out they were right. I met someone who I adore and within 10 minutes we knew this was it. I never would have met this person otherwise as she is busy with her career as am I, without a personal reference. It's kind of like business, if you want to be succesful you associate with succesful people. So my point is make some friends outside of the circle you have now. Tell the wife of some couple that you wish you were like and she will help you out. The good guys are out there. Work on you, don't put up with any crap and they will find you. Reminds me, I need to call my girlfriend and tell her how much I appreciate her.
2006-08-15 00:12:10 · answer #2 · answered by jackson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you did something really bad in a past life and God is torturing you. I certainly know a great deal of men who do more than pop pills and roll dubies. Yea sure, they may be addicted to porn and yea ok, they still live at home with their mothers - but come on, this is America, that is why people move here!
PS - The only difference between foreign men and American men is the accent. Sure I can't tell you from experience, but I"ve seen movies with foreign men in them, and they seem like nothing but trouble!
2006-08-14 23:39:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck to you...I've not had your experience with all Ameican men I've dated, and I'm sure there are those like you describe in every country elsewhere...
I'd rather work on something at least on the same continent as I, than try to work out the logistics of traveling back and forth for many many months as 2 people from different countries try to get to know one another and see if they can get beyond any cultural and ethnic differences and make a go of it...and then, decide who has to relocate...
2006-08-14 23:36:50 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FYI - there is no one "Down Under".
I was thinking of moving to Europe in my quest to find the right person......more Cultural diversity
2006-08-15 01:10:57 · answer #5 · answered by Six B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to find a decent male...date a Turkish man. They are wonderful, loyal, and loving!
2006-08-14 23:34:08 · answer #6 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm i was just thinking along the same lines yesterday. only im a guy funny how things work
2006-08-14 23:34:54 · answer #7 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go north! (Canada) They are nicer there bu t be warned they may smoke pot
2006-08-14 23:35:20 · answer #8 · answered by pinko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need to stop looking and allow God to point you in the right direction?
2006-08-14 23:37:24 · answer #9 · answered by christine a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lose weight and the men will come.
2006-08-14 23:40:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋