Hey..i am 14 and never had a boyfriend...is this wierd..i mean i have never even been on a date...?

Question

are there any tips for me...no how to get a boyfriend...anything...i mean i feel so wierd all my friends have kissed guys and most have even had sex

Answer 1

It's really not that big of a deal

I'm 17 and have had only one "girlfriend", for like, a week.

If you feel like your little 14 year old friends aren;t paying you any attention, but giving theirs to their "boyfriends" Then it soudns to me like you need to explore your opportunities when it comes to friends.

However, if you are the loyal type, like me, just stick to doing what you do best and be pround of it, because eventually they will end up pregnant and you will be laughing when you can pay off your house in a week.

Answer 2

You don't need a boyfriend. You want identity and recognition from your group of friends. This is what we call peer pressure.
I doubt their relationship with their boyfriends will last because they are too young (including yourself) to understand the meaning of love and commitment. They are playing with fire!
Do they understand the consequences of having sex? Do you understand? They are only thinking about the enjoyment they get from sex.
What would you do if you are pregnant? How will your boyfriend react? How will your parents react? Do you have the money to raise the child? Do you know what working life is about? Are you going to abort it your baby? What if your boyfriend pass the sex disease to you?
People had the tendency to think that such things wouldn't happen to them.
Young lady, my advice to you is leave this group of friends. Make new friends where you'll share the same hobby or interest.
Wait and see, their life will be no better than yours.
Take good care of yourself.

Answer 3

I didn't date until I was in college, and 14 is a little young to have sex, your friends seem a little promiscuous to be getting laid at that age. Honestly, I think you're smart to be questioning this and not following the pack and getting a boyfriend just because everyone else is. My friends were dating and screwing at young ages too, and they didn't care that I wasn't. If your 'friends' give you s h i t about it, than they aren't really that great of friends. are they? You'll date when you meet the right person.
Trust me, if you look for someone, it's weird and isn't real.

Answer 4

God no. Look at my pic, I'm hot and I didn't even get my first kiss til I was a year older than you darling. stop looking so hard and enjoy your youth! One day you'll be married, lose your figure and have bills and six kids to worry about and you'll look back on this time and wish you had made the most of it.
most importantly, DO NOT rush into sex with guys darling! Wait until you are totally ready, your friends are stupid bimbos who probably already regret giving it up so easily!! I waited til I was 19, no from lack of offers, but just wanting to be totally ready and I have no regrets! Stay a virgin as long as you can babe!

Answer 5

no there is nothing weird about it. right now you are at that age where guys like you but they still don't know how to ask you out yet . when i was little my mom would not let me date till i was 17 and all of my friends had been kissed and had sex and everything. and i wanted to have fun and have a boyfriend like them . but then when i could go out on a date . i was glad that i did not do like my friends . they had someone telling them to have sex or to do this and that . and then for me no one said it to me . so to me it was better. cuz i was not having to do what everyone wanted me to do .. so just take your time and the right little guy will come around . and plz whatever you do don't have sex. if you do plz. wait till you are 18. i hope that this will out you some...

Answer 6

i am 14 too it is ok, don't get stressed out about it. well be urself and don't go out looking for sex, your friends are way too young, my friends mom had my friend when she was 12 that was unbelievable when i found out. let me just say virginity is a sacred thing that u will never get back, now kissing at our age is common, and also don't be in 'love' with a guy for his looks, do it for his personality. Usually the guys with looks are usually the guys looking for hot girl too screw off, sorry but that is all that is in their head. You can go to the movies with a few friends and meet up with a guy and you can sit together, perfect it worked with me, we even kissed a little too. But try to not look for the guys wanting sex k.

Answer 7

Don't rush yourself just to fit in. No, it's not weird that you've never had a boyfriend. It's actually probably better because you'll appreciate it more than some of your friends did at the time. Some of them might even wish they could go back and change a few things. Just remember to go slowly and take your time.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

im 13 i haven't been on a date or kissed someone or even have sex but i know the only thing you ever have to do is be yourself and that should be enough for any boy to like you and also don't give it away but drop hints to the boy you like and most importantly don't do anything you don't want to do!! Don't do things that others are doing if you don't want to do and just remeber that!!

Answer 10

That's fine. I know it doesn't seem like it but you're young yet. You've got time to find out who you are and get into a groove.

You don't want to have sex just because your friends are. You need to figure out your beliefs about sex first (i.e./ wait for marriage, wait for someone special, wait until you're a certain age, wait until you're done school - whatever you believe is right for you). You'll regret it if you waste your first time on someone who doesn't matters when you aren't ready just cause you're friends are doing it.