like your boyfriend
2006-08-14 16:09:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
Sex is overrated. Saving yourself for marriage is a nice gesture, and I wouldn't ever tell anyone NOT to save themselves, but in the end it doesn't really matter, does it?
2006-08-14 16:15:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always planned on waiting until I was married, and I made it until I was 21, but I came to realize, the chances of meating someone in their 20's that's also a virgin, and not and over the top christian or some kind of weirdo or ugly, are pretty slim, so you're basically just cheating yourself, because when you do find mr. right, and even if it's only a couple girls he's been with, it will always bug you. BUT if your still a teen, then wait, guys your age don't have a clue what to do anyways, THAT is wasting your first, just make sure it's someone you love, that you at least SEE the potential for marriage in. (by the way, when I say over the top christian, I mean really out there, I'm not knocking on christianity, I go to church every sunday and all that).
2006-08-14 23:18:16 · answer #2 · answered by Joe S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you miss out a lot, as long as you're protected by pill and condom. I find that if you wait until you get married, later on you might wonder what it would be like with someone else. You have nothing to compare. And that could lead to affairs and the end of the marriage. Besides boys are allowed to do it and girls if they do at are sluts. What a load of crap, That's just a double standard.
2006-08-14 23:17:59 · answer #3 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i wouldn't wait. (but i never intend to get married). but still, even if i were to get married i wouldn't wait till i was married to get laid. no way. besides, quite frankly you might want a bit of experience in the sack before hand. use someone else as a learning tool. i personally wouldn't want to have sex with some guy who's clumsey in bed. unless he listened and did what i say. i guess you could always teach him. or in our case the other way around. GOOD LUCK HUN!!!
2006-08-14 23:19:34 · answer #4 · answered by vanessa w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is such a touchy subject..but i think people should wait till they are married to make love, and no you wont miss anything....because I waited ,..and I have been married 30 years...and I waited and i am glad I did...no regrets....but its up to the individual..good luck and God Bless..
2006-08-14 23:19:36 · answer #5 · answered by ck1_content 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it all depends on how you want to live your life... I lost mine when I was 13(big mistake!!), and later meet my husband when i was 14 , we got married when I was 20 ...so it is up to you... do it with someone you love at least!
2006-08-14 23:16:22 · answer #6 · answered by SallyS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, but don't let your boyfriend pressure into anything your not ready for.Some guys will tell you anything to get into your pants and you & only you will have to live with that decision.
2006-08-14 23:17:04 · answer #7 · answered by barcan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have as much sex before marriage as you can.
2006-08-14 23:12:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Would you buy a car without test driving it first?.Better to have sex first to see if both of you are compatible.
2006-08-14 23:16:25 · answer #9 · answered by Joe P 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you wont have that special feeling with your husband that you would for your first time having sex...and then you might think of guys you previously were with when with your husband..not a good thing
2006-08-14 23:12:52 · answer #10 · answered by aoinerekai 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋