my husband asked me if he could have sex with my sister ,well my sister said if i didnt mind she will cause i told her what he said!!! should i let them have a one day thing???
2006-08-14 15:56:36 · 64 answers · asked by big&beutifull 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
more answer i will show this to my husband and sister!!
2006-08-14 16:23:15 · update #1
stop lying please i swear ya'll just be making this crap up sometimes cause can't nobody be that stupid lol
2006-08-14 15:59:58 · answer #1 · answered by lia86 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Ether you have a REALLY secure relationship, or you're setting yourself up for a big fall here.
On the upside, at least he asked you first :/
I wouldn't have told her though - now it's in both of their minds as a possibility, and temptation may well get to them regardless of your answer - if it hasn't already.
Did you ask him WHY he wants to have sex with your sister? What does he think is wrong with you that he has to look elsewhere, and even then, why should it be her? Sounds like kickin you when you're down to me
"You're not good enough, can I try out the rest of your family?"
Not good. Not good at all.....
2006-08-14 16:07:59 · answer #2 · answered by Purecheese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you on drugs
hell no not just no
your old man is an ***
and your sister is ? that is family come on she should know you better than to think that you would be OK with this and if you are get therapy
love your self I don't give a dam what you look like feel good about your self and go with it if your man wont's your sister and she is good with that your sister needs help to.
it is called self control and your man doesn't have it as a man you can think these things but you NEVER EXPRESS THEM it is rude and very very very disrespectful
2006-08-14 16:07:58 · answer #3 · answered by mikel m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh, no.
Say they have a one day thing, with your permission. Do you really think they will stop there? The next time they want to do that, they know you aren't going to stop them, or do anything about it. Don't be a pushover! He will have it with her, then with anybody else he feels like.
Besides what in the hell kind of a man tells his wife he wants to sleep with his sister in law!! Even if he did feel that way, he should have kept his mouth shut and got over it. You will never be able to trust them alone again.
2006-08-14 16:03:04 · answer #4 · answered by Chrissy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How could you seriously be contemplating this. The answer is no. If you do allow him to sleep with your sister than chances are they are going to do it again. Do you not respect yourself at all? No woman in her right mind would share her husband/boyfriend with anyone. Don't do it.
2006-08-14 16:07:12 · answer #5 · answered by Meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you nuts? This is your husband, and your sister. Do you have low self esteem? You should be the only one he's thinkin about and wantin to have sex with. I'd be kicken their a****. : ). Even if your husband is an a******.,your sister should love and respect you more and tell him how disgusting he is. Also do you honestly think it will be a one day thing?
2006-08-14 16:08:51 · answer #6 · answered by nativeamericantay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you out of your mind? Do you want to share your husband with another woman? That's totally against what a marriage is suppose to be about. If your husband wants to be with another woman, divorce him and let him go. Obviously he is unworthy of your love and affection. How would he feel if you wanted to have sex with his brother? He would be very upset with you. Obviously he has no respect for you.
2006-08-14 16:02:49 · answer #7 · answered by Randy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must be nuts to even ask on Yahoo for advice. Lettin gr hubby have sex with ur sister is just sooo wrong. You will be lucky that it is just a 1 time thing. I bet he will want more then move on to swinging. In fact I'd divorce him for having such thoughts becuz he clearly is not in love with u he's in love with ur sister!!!
2006-08-14 16:02:23 · answer #8 · answered by Wibble 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness hell no and if he is attracted to your sister and she seems like she has no problem being with him I would not let that happen because it will become more than a one night thing and beleive me you are not gonna like the outcome. You should let him him know that if thats how they feel then maybe you guys shouldn't be together.
2006-08-14 16:03:33 · answer #9 · answered by tessebell29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of a sister or husband would actaully think that it would be okay?
The fact that he would even ask and the fact that she is all for it is amazing. Wow. If one of my sisters thought that it was okay I would totally disown her. And divorce him!
2006-08-14 16:04:29 · answer #10 · answered by witsa1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not ?, Yes of course your sister can have sex with your husband, and when your sister marry, you can have sex with her husband. It is Normal.
2006-08-15 02:42:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋