ok im trying to spel beter now. my frend becky gave me a cheat sheet with common words an i check the sheet to mak sure im spelling them beter. im in sp ed but i want to improv. first im not gay becaus i get turned on by girls especialy becky. im very thin an strong. i exercise and do the park obstacle curse at least 3 times. a lot of boys say bad stuff abt me all the time but this boy is nice to me. hes going back home to get ready for school. his cousin is having a barbacue next sunday. hes leaveing mon. he said that there is a room on the far end of the lot we can go. he asked if i could go there with him on sun. he asked if we could make out than i do him. he said it would make him feel better. i told him nothing else.
2006-08-14 15:46:59 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Jamie, this boy is using you. You deserve better. He only wants you to do this so he would feel better. Trust me, you won't be feeling very good about yourself if you let him use you. Tell him no - you are not going to sleep with him. If he wants to sleep with somebody, he will have to find someone else.
What makes this worse is that you are not gay. If you were gay, it would be one thing. He would STILL be using you, either way. What I'm trying to say, however, is that as a straight boy, you should not want to have sex with a gay boy.
Please keep yourself safe and stay away from this boy. Even if he's being nice to you, he isn't doing what's best for you. Sometimes people are nice to people so they can do bad things to them later on.
Good luck... and continue to try to spell better. You're doing a great job.
2006-08-14 15:54:00 · answer #1 · answered by ♪ ♥ ♪ ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a sped teacher baby. Dont let others take advantage of you. You are not dumb so dont make dumb decisions. If you are not gay then dont do that. You will regret it later in life when you realize that you did something that wasn't you. I'm wondering if you are thinking about doing this because you want a friend? You are a wonderful creature that God made, and you don't have to do anything that isn't comfortable to you just to make a friend. That's manipulative- which means he is trying to take advantage of the fact that you have a hard time making friends. Tell him no you won't do that but you can be friends. If he gets angry then SO WHAT! Friends dont do things like that. God will send you a real friend if you keep praying and being yourself. One good friend is better than 100 fake friends.
2006-08-14 15:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by prtybrwneyez1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well buddy seems as HE does have some inclinations towards homosexuality... short: He IS GAY. and HE LIKES YOU. Now, its in your hands.. to say YES or NO. YOu will be taking a risk though because if you say you are not gay and you do it he can later try to make you do whatever he wants you to do for him in order to not tell all the people that "you are gay". IT depends on how you feel.. Expirimentation its ok but be careful of what can happen after that because you never know if hes "in love" or obsessed with you so ... yu shuld take precautions if its not YOU DONT DO IT if it is then go for it .. being gay takes alot of courage you know?
2006-08-14 15:53:30 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having another boy give you sexual relief is a sexual act and is considered homosexuality. I don't care how you try to convince yourself otherwise, but if you have sexual relations with this boy you are committing a homosexual act. Is this something that you can live with? Before you go along with it, do some deep soul searching and ask for guidance from a friend, counselor, or pastor. As an adolescence, feelings change with the influx of the hormones. Don't make a mistake that you will regret for the rest of your life.
2006-08-14 15:55:26 · answer #4 · answered by Randy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask Becky to help you out a little more with your spelling
2006-08-14 15:51:12 · answer #5 · answered by 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you get turned on by girls and boys then you are a bisexual. it depends on you and what you do with what you are feeling. but please take precautions when you decide to actually "rock the boat." a lot of people have sexually transmitted diseases nowadays and you can also be infected if you are careless. (remember the ABC's of safe sex ....A=abstain, B=be faithful to one partner C= contaceptives, condoms ) goodluck and think twice. you are the master of yourself so the decision will ultimately come from you. but also think of the consequences of your actions. dont just dwell on the gratification. but if you are doing it because you want to feel accepted, dont. real friends dont take advantage.
2006-08-14 16:01:28 · answer #6 · answered by luvdoctor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like boys that way, then you shouldn't do it. It will only make you feel bad about yourself.
Don't let him pressure you honey! Just because he's nice to you doesn't mean you owe him anything.
Promise me you will talk to a close family member or friend before you decide to do anything, okay? :)
2006-08-14 15:54:57 · answer #7 · answered by lazydazy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres no fine line between Hetero and Homo, when it come to dude on dude action. Thats Gay! If you wasent gay before that your gay now, its not a bad thing realy, its just means your gay.
2006-08-14 15:54:19 · answer #8 · answered by dashiznititis 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I my opinion i wouldn't, because who knows he might go and tell everyone that u 2 slept wit each other. U should get a girl....like Becky....and she should tell u what u need to do.
2006-08-14 15:51:45 · answer #9 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is Becky in special ed too? Ask your teacher.
2006-08-14 16:30:31 · answer #10 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋