Me and my fathers wench had a bit of a disagreement that got me kicked out of my fathers house. I have been very happily living with my mom ever since. And now, after almost four months, he wants me to see him/visit him/talk to him, even though his wench wife is a (pardon the childish terms) crazy bi-polar skank hoe and would more than likely attempt to kill me, despite her (rather poor) attempt to act friendly recently. Not only that, I do not forgive my father for sideing with her, it was not right, it was not fair, he gave me nothing when he flung my *** out on my grandmothers door step (My mother came and picked me up after the school year ended) and,quite frankly, I don't want to talk to him.
Well, should I give it a try, or not?
2006-08-14 15:35:18 · 9 answers · asked by Bretagne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yes it is your Dad, he is blinded by love, reach out and kill him and her w/kindness, it will irk her off so much!!! You must have patients and trudge through this, trust me I lived it and know exactly what you are going through. Anyway, I was always close to my dad until she happened. All his girlfriends were cool but this lady was pretty but horrible inside. Try being close to a dad that coaches your step monsters kids baseball games but yet does not come to yours, or the step monster who lies about you to your father and he believes her lying sick mind because she is the adult who uses the excuse that you are jealous. Yeah try 8 years of that crud, Trust me your dad will or is coming around. Life is too short to shut out your flesh and blood because of a mistake he made.
2006-08-14 15:49:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your father's wench crazy bi-polar skank hoe is his wife, then yes, it is probably appropriate for him to support her.
If you're asking the question you either really do want to talk with him, and are just upset you can't get him to do/be/behave/think like you want, or you just want validation of your feelings that you don't want to talk to him.
I put to you that you really do want a relationship with your father, but resent his skank hoe bi-polar wench.
Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself. Try it. What could it hurt to drop him an e-mail, phone him, let him take you out to lunch?
2006-08-14 15:46:03 · answer #2 · answered by Wicked Mickey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You left out why your father kicked you out...an important detail. I suggest you search your soul and ask yourself if what happened has to do with your attitude. If so, time to apologize. If that isn't it, maybe keeping your distance for a while would help. Maybe if all of you went into counseling and worked it out, that would be best. It's VERY obvious you don't like your step-mom, a lot of hostility there which you need to deal with somehow.
2006-08-14 15:43:30 · answer #3 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a try. If nothing else hear him out, and hopefully, he'll heard your side. Your relationship should be with your father, not his wife. Tell him you want to have a relationship with him with out her interfering. Try not to go into the meeting being angry, look at it as a new start for you both. Best Wishes.
2006-08-14 15:45:23 · answer #4 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to talk to him why ask
But I was abused by my father- I evetually found out that he was my step-father but had apoted me when I was young
He's a complete self-absorbed ******
But every once in a while I try to make contact-
I left home 16 years ago b/c of him but I still feel obligated even though when I try to contact him its usually horrific.
2006-08-14 15:43:46 · answer #5 · answered by heatherhedyjon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would at least tell your Father what has happened and why you do not want to come and visit or much less have anything to do with him anymore and that he hurt you, you can write him a letter and leave it for him only like at his work so that you know that she will not intercept it and trash it. and i would let him know about her and how she treats you and that he must choose to stick up for you and keep a relation ship with you or to side with her continuiously and not have a child any more.
2006-08-14 15:43:38 · answer #6 · answered by ladyrebel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you do not like your fathers wife..he is your dad and deserves to be heard....Maybe he shouldn't have thrown you out of the house...and maybe he wants to apologise to you
You can have a relationship with your dad despite her...just let him know ....Yes go see him if for no other reason to see what he wants
2006-08-14 15:46:23 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a decision you have to make. Parents are human to. And they do make bad choices. I think you should talk to him and keep it calm. After you do that you might have more to go by. But if you feel you life might be in danger its best to keep her out of it. And find some one you trust to be there for you. Calmly lay out all you concerns and feelings. After that you can make your decision.
2006-08-14 15:45:12 · answer #8 · answered by lak3rat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to talk to him then don't..!!! You will get over this childish behavior and you will understand when you get older...!
2006-08-14 15:42:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋