2006-08-14 15:28:54 · 36 answers · asked by pumkin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him, date her. Guys are losers.
2006-08-14 15:33:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only is it cheating, but it's unfair. You need to let the other person go find someone who will love only them. If you are currently dating a boy and you are seeing a girl, then you need to own up to the fact that you are gay and be proud about it. But don't be proud of the fact that you are a cheater, just don't be afraid to admit what you are.
DO NOT degrade the gay race just because you can not commit. That's why gay people have such a hard time getting married because of people like you who make all gay people look bad. Being gay does not mean you have permission to be immoral.
Think about it.
2006-08-14 15:41:14 · answer #2 · answered by #1 auntie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've asked this q before and everyone told me that it is a yes, but you know what? the guys are going to tell you that it's a no. 80% of the time when you ask a "is it cheating" question...it's cheating. i'm bi- and i've been with my bf for 4yrs...im attracted to girls and would like to mess around...just for fun, but to me...it would actually consider cheating. who knows, you can bring it up to your man and tell him that you might be interested in your own sex. MOST guys would be fascinated by it...if it bothers him, dont do it.
2006-08-14 15:44:23 · answer #3 · answered by mizs_sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wouldn't it be? If you are hiding it from your significant other or doing it after they've said it wouldn't be acceptable, then you'd better believe it's cheating....
Would you want your partner to "mess around" with someone else...male or female? The sex of the person doesn't matter...same sex doesn't make it okay...
Treat others as you'd like to be treated...if you don't want to be cheated on, don't cheat on others or be a party to cheating...
2006-08-14 15:34:12 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. You need to define "messing around" but the mere fact that you are asking indicates to me that you already question what you are doing. Would YOU want your girl to be "messing around" with another guy? How would that make you feel. Perhaps your not ready for a relationship with one indivdual only, and thats okay. Date or "mess around" with others, but be honest to yourself and your girl friend.
2006-08-14 15:49:42 · answer #5 · answered by Californiagal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Wouldn't you consider it cheating if he was messing around with a guy?
2006-08-14 15:33:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-08-14 15:32:00 · answer #7 · answered by Curious_Camo_Jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how your boyfriend sees it.....hypothetically ask him how he would feel if you wanted to mess with another girl if hes down with it then carry on. I personally dont think so cause most guys think girl on girl is hot, but I always ask whoever Im dating how he feels about it before I venture out to mess with another girl.
2006-08-14 15:33:53 · answer #8 · answered by lildevilchild_87 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your bf KNOW you are messing around with her? If you have to hide it its cheating.
2006-08-14 15:32:11 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. As longs as it's a girl, it not cheating. At least that what I always say.
2006-08-14 15:33:35 · answer #10 · answered by jc20155 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its kept as a secret, it's cheating.
Simple.
If it wasn't cheating, you'd have had no reason not to tell him already, so you answer your own question..
Have you told him, or are you going behind his back?
If you've not told him, it's because you already know it's wrong.
2006-08-14 15:35:03 · answer #11 · answered by Purecheese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋