I call them to go out to the clubs to have someone to party with, and they all think I'm going to be exclusive. Which I don't understand because I'm up front with them about not wanting to be in a serious relationship. Just for the record I don't sleep with any two people at one time.
2006-08-14 15:17:58 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For the people that are worried about my 2 year old. I am 23 and single and my daughter is very much #1 priority in my life. I shouldn't have to sit at home every weekend just because I'm a mom.
2006-08-14 15:36:23 · update #1
You are not a tease because you have made it clear. Just make sure to remind them of it occasionally. Guys have this problem when a girl grinds on them in a club.... they forget anything that you might have said before. The bottom line is this.... seperate those that you "hang out with" in non sexual ways....from those that you screw. You dont want them to mix and you shouldn't screw a guy that you are just friends with.
The problem is basic... you must be attractive...so therefore guys want to be with you. You can't avoid this... so you must minimize it if it bothers you. If you just want to dance with someone...or screw them afterwards.... do that to guys you MEET at the club. Dont do that to guys you are already friends with. The guys at the club are there for that EXACT reason. They want you to come there to meet them. I doubt you will have any problem with them wanting more out of your relationship.
P.S. Protect yourself if you are going to live this type of lifestyle.
2006-08-14 15:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by the_thoughtless_ponderer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't if "tease" is the right word for you, but you sure are something!!! Not wanting to be in a serious relationship is not the same as not wanting to be exclusive. Maybe you should start telling guys that you just want someone to hang out with and nothing more. Then they won't have any expectations of where things might go.
2006-08-14 15:30:17 · answer #2 · answered by golddiggalova 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I'm not looking for a girlfriend ;Right now I would say this is okay. I'm 23 right now. So, guys not looking for commitment will be attracted to you. And you will be most likely attracted to them. Don't know If i would give you the same answer 5 years from now
I've hung out with more than one girl at once. Doesn't make me a p)imp.
This is good here that you mentioned this. See, not all guys want nice girls. It seems like everyone on believes the only relationships that occur are bad guys and nice girls. Completely untrue.
2006-08-14 15:33:05 · answer #3 · answered by thunderbomb90 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Something seems a little "off." Why are you a single mom, where is her dad and who is staying with your daughter when you're going out to clubs? Why do you need "guys" to "hang out and party with," why not girls (or why this at all as opposed to being with your daughter)? And why are you continuing to sleep with people outside of any marriage, even if it's not "two at one time?"
2006-08-14 15:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not necessarily a tease. Maybe you feel safer around guys than around women. I'd much rather the company of ten guys then 1 woman. As long as they know they are just buds you are hanging out with. If they think you are on a date--clear that up off the rip.
2006-08-14 15:24:44 · answer #5 · answered by corry692001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might not be a tease but people like to make stuff up and say you are easy. You might not do to bed with 2 guys but people can talk so I suggest that if you're happy and you don't care what others say than go for it. Have fun and you're only young once.
2006-08-14 15:24:02 · answer #6 · answered by Queen of Kings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have bigger problems than getting a reputation as a tease...you should be hanging out with your 2 year old instead of with a bunch of horny guys at clubs. Just think of what you are teaching your poor kid...did your parents treat you the same way?
2006-08-14 15:27:17 · answer #7 · answered by Answers1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Hannah,
As long as you tell the guy up front that you're not going to be sleeping with him, he's free to get other girls, and maybe you might even help him score. That sounds good. Not a problem. Female wing men are great for picking up chicks.
But, if you're not telling them up front, then you are leading him on, and you could be getting a very angry date.
--Rick
2006-08-14 15:26:08 · answer #8 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should try sleeping with more than one person at the same time. Try sleeping with three guys all at once, preferably in the same room at the same time. This way no one will ever think you are a tease again.
2006-08-14 15:29:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would really depend on the guy. If it is just a friend that you are go in with then it's no big deal. But just a guy that you know then it is kind of teasing.
2006-08-14 15:22:48 · answer #10 · answered by alex s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋