dotn say "u need family-therapy" or something like that cuz i need a new home my parents neglect me. im a teen. they dont deal with me whenvever im upset tey ingonre me, give dumb advice or get mad at me. how can i them to put me up for adoption?
2006-08-14 15:07:34 · 25 answers · asked by the5500 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Deal with it. You're a teen, of course you feel that way.
Screw therapy. It'll cost a lot of money to tell you exactly what I said above.
2006-08-14 15:11:57 · answer #1 · answered by PermDude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some parents feel that when a child is angry and throughing a fit it is best to ignore it until they calm down, then try to talk..maybe that is what they are doing. Teenagers usually think what their parents say is dumb. I always thought my moms advice was dumb, but looking back she knew what she was talking about. It doesn't sound like your parents are to mean to you. No one would take children from their parents without reason. If their is no real abuse other than you just complaining like ever other teen, then forget it. What until you turn 18 and move out
2006-08-19 11:30:32 · answer #2 · answered by fin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think every teenager feels that way at times, even myself. There are times when I just want to runaway. The thing is as long as they aren't beating the **** out of you and they are supporting you, you should deal with it until you are old enough to get a job and support yourself. The fact that your parents give you advice at all means they do care. Believe me you make think you want to be adopted but the grass is not always greener on the other side. Hopefully this makes sense and is helpful.
2006-08-22 06:10:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they truly neglect you or mistreat you then report them to child protective services. My neighbor did this (she is 17) and now lives with her grandmother. But seriously think (pretend you are not yourself, look at the situation like a stranger and not yourself) if they are really treating you bad or if you are just being sensitive. I thought my parents were the same way. My father is now dead and I miss him terribly & I am best friends with my mother. I wish I had not been so silly as a teen...thinking they were stupid or neglectful or mean. They were just my parents.
2006-08-21 07:49:12 · answer #4 · answered by sgeorges13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can anyone possibly answer this without knowing more. More about you, what you are going through. and there is also your parents side of this question. Hey, I was a teen too and I often thought it would be cool to live somewhere else. If there really is neglect then take it to the authorities!
2006-08-14 15:17:37 · answer #5 · answered by J. A. M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might just be seeing what you want. I used to feel like that about my parents. But now that I'm older, and I think back to those times, my parents tried anything and everything to be good parents. Keep in mind, that parenting, doesn't come with a handbook...they are learning to be parents as much as you will learn some day. They're not perfect! I think you just need to start thinking outside of the box!
2006-08-14 15:14:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you fed? Do you have clothes? Do you have a roof over your head? Do you have bruises all over your body? Do they lock you in rooms? If the answer to these questions is yes, yes, yes, no and no, then you are not neglected. You just don't get what you want when you want it from your parents. If your parents can't give you advise when you are upset then you need to talk to your friends, that's what they are for.
2006-08-22 08:13:55 · answer #7 · answered by purpleama456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really think that life in a State or Federally funded institution would be better than you have it now? Because that is exactly where you'd most likely live out the rest of your youth. NO ONE wants to adopt a teenager or pre-teenager, only cute little newborn babies.....face it.
Your home life doesn't sound perfect, but I guarantee it's better than life in a foster home or state orphanage.
2006-08-14 15:16:44 · answer #8 · answered by artistagent116 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are showing how immature you really are. ADOPTION? Speaking as a MOM who has adopted 2 children from the DCFS system.....all these children wanted was to have a MOM/DAD and a home.
Can you see how selfish and spoiled you are sounding? YOU have a MOM/DAD a HOME...
You are not wanting to listen because you are all about the ME ME ME ME and more ME ME ME ....finally the parent turns you off ...and ignores your bad behavior and judgment!
Parents don't give dumb advice. They give educated advice and when the child doesn't listen to the advice consequences happen and you are dealt with....You misconstrue this to mean they're mad at you.
Trust me...you don't want to be a WARD of the STATE....chances for you being adopted are nill to none!! I adopted both of my children when they were 6 and 10. Adoption hopes for older children are almost non-existent!
2006-08-18 23:39:32 · answer #9 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Unfortunately any one can be a parent, and some arent any good at it.
Start working and save money, finish school too. Then move out when you can. Or go live with another relative till you finish shcool and work if they will let you move out.
Unfortunately some parents check out before their job is done, you might have to start taking care of your self more.
2006-08-14 15:16:37 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋