Okay, I'm going through some things with some of my family members and I know I shouldn't. I have been stressed out to the fullest; maybe GOD's trying to open my eyes to things/show me who I can/can't count on. But anyway, I'm so stressed that when a guy asks me out, I find it hard to go out with him. I mean, I don't act like I 'm all that/anything. It's just hard to find someone to relate to about the changes I'm going through. And my biggest thing now is trying to open up again. How do I even attempt to allow myself to be happy with someone when I feel there's no one I can count on/trust? And I know I shouldn't be like this/feel like this, but any advice?
2006-08-14 14:46:28 · 5 answers · asked by lilred24sta 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you have to keep your heart open to love again the alternative
is a lonely life. do not let the last person that hurt you ,rob you of the blessing of anothers love. know that you deserve to be loved and you're stronger now for what you have been through. God Bless and i wish you many years of happiness
2006-08-14 15:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by evian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only one you can count on is yourself( God if you believe). With that in mind, you need to get out. It may clear your head and it sounds like you could do with a Little fun. You may find someone that is going though what you are,or even better, been there and can help you though it. GO!!! Have some FUN!!!!
2006-08-14 21:59:21 · answer #2 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop your baggage and live life to the fullest. Don't go into dating/relationship and automatically assume you can't count on the person or trust them. Give them your trust and either they will pleasantly surprise you, or they will prove that they can't be trusted. Either way, at least you gave it a chance and didn't judge the person and ruin a potentially great relationship.
2006-08-14 21:52:53 · answer #3 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're opening up to us and that's a good start.
You seem to start out with a family problem, but end with a guy problem. Which is it? or both? and where does the doctor fit in? I'm kinda confused here...can you help?
2006-08-14 22:06:41 · answer #4 · answered by Answers1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to allow yourself to be happy. you are a separate person from your family no matter what you are going through. have some fun in your life
2006-08-14 21:54:08 · answer #5 · answered by Diana K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋