Ive tired to forget her ive even messed around with other girls but theirs no way in forgetin the girl who i L

Question

well she had her first love already. im 18 and 2yrs ago ive stopped beign a player and decided to switch my game into having a lil wifey. well i found her and we dated for 2yrs know, we broke up almost 3 months ago . i became a victim of love. i just cant belive i went from beign a player to being faithful and the thing is i love her so much. i was their in special moments of her life when not even her parents where their, i can say ive changed her life. well the problem is that she still have small feelings for her ex which is love. and im quite jelouse because of the fact that i should be the one beign loved. NO SHE DIND NOT PLAY ME.. she really likes me almost to the point of love. we broke up because of the fact she dont know what to do. and i recently told her IF IS IN THE MATTER OF PICKING WHO TO BE WITH.. COUNT ME OUT. know i guess im back into beign who i was before, sleepign with girls but the fact is i still freakign love her. i hope u guys help me out....

Answer 1

Give it a lil time. She may realize she was dumb and then want you back, but you can't make her realize this. Just give her some time to realize it on her own. You might try talking to her, and asking what she feels, not necessarily WHY she feels it. Or, you could take the other approach and not call her for a while; maybe she'll feel sorry and take you back.

Answer 2

After two years of dating her...she still doesn't know who she wants to be with?
She is/was playing games with you,...that's my impression. You seem to be in denial about that. What she is doing to you, though...is something you might be doing to one of those other girls you are fooling around with...you are not letting go of your ex. Open your eyes...and don't do the same thing to somebody else, because you do know now how that feels.