There is this guy and he asked me out 3 days ago and he knows I like him then he dumps me because of my best friend.She likes him..And I said he was mine first I told her that I liked him first so stay away then he dumped me because he said I'm not worth yall's friendship so I'm not gonna go out with either one of you.But he still likes me he told me he did...Is that a goodguy or not??And is that a good friend??She has already taken one of my boyfriend.Is she a backstabber??
2006-08-14 14:36:50 · 42 answers · asked by Kayla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They are both rubbish,and rubbish goes in the bin.
2006-08-14 14:41:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's a total backstabber, find a new girlfriend that wouldn't do that too you. You sound too good for that, and go out with the guy and say that you realized she's not a good friend, and that he didn't ruin the friendship. He sounds like a goodguy, go for it!
2006-08-14 14:44:07 · answer #2 · answered by Summerbaby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm? Sounds like a relationship problem between you and the guy and you and your girlfriend.
I don't like the idea that the guy dumped you to avoid the drama between you and your girlfriend. A little more substance and communication should have been in order.
Your girlfriend should have recognized that if this guy asked you out, that she should have backed off and appreciated the fact that someone is really interested in you.
I don't think the guy is a bad guy, and I think he deserves a second chance. Your girlfriend sounds like she has a little track record, while he appears not to.
Open your lines of communication with both of them. Let them know what you would like to see come of the entire thing. Best of luck!
2006-08-14 14:46:58 · answer #3 · answered by Jay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a good guy but she is definitely not a good friend. I say dump the friend and then go tell him that the damage is already done because if she's going to chase after a guy after he asks you out how can you ever trust her again. Then ask the guy out. GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-08-14 14:45:36 · answer #4 · answered by unicornfarie1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think a guy that would say all that is deff a good guy cause if he doean't wanna come between the friendship there is no guy better then that1 the girl is sort of a backstabber can t say she totally is because i dont know her but thats somethin you have to judge acording to the past if u see that she betrayed u more then once she is a backstabber
2006-08-14 14:43:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, he's not a good guy. He's a spineless wuss because he has no determination to win the girl he supposedly likes. And yes, your friend is a backstabber and a liar. Get the hell away from her if you ever want to land a permanent relationship. By the way, it sounds as if the guy only wants in your pants. You can do better.
2006-08-14 14:43:35 · answer #6 · answered by lexiann721 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Doesn't sound like much of a friend to me. If I knew my friend liked someone,I would go the other way from this guy and not get in between. dump your friend , she is not really a friend anyway. Go for the guy.
2006-08-14 14:42:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the guy did the right thing. I don't know many people who want to be in the middle of two girls fighting.
As for your friend, she doesn't sound like a very good one.
In my book any guy my friend even likes, even if he's not interested in her at all is off limits to me.
I'd say keep her at arms length, and find a different guy.
2006-08-14 14:49:04 · answer #8 · answered by anabele6 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Friends shouldn't fight over boys. Your friendship is too important. You should promise in the beginning not to trespass on each other's relationships. Forget about this guy. He's not worth it. You're probably not over Brandon yet anyway so don't take these things so seriously.
2006-08-14 14:45:47 · answer #9 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you and your friend need to have a talk or your friendship is not going to last.For the guy he may not know the whole story about your friend.He sounds like a real decent guy to put your friendship first because he lost out too.
2006-08-14 14:43:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you are obviously easy to walk all over. you are so nice and passive that people don't take you seriously when you put yur foot down and both your friend and your ex b/f are taking advantage.
the guy that dumped you seems like he's trying to keep you around. Be careful because he may be using you until he finds someone else. keep your guard up.
2006-08-14 14:41:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋