but i told her i wasn't and i'm really not but i don't know if she really belives me and i'm getting upset please help
2006-08-14 14:15:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
actually cheat on her, that will show her what's what
2006-08-14 14:18:52 · answer #1 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋
I hate to tell you this but, the problem all lays on your girlfriend, she more than likely was hurt in the past is fully thinks you will do the same things. Only time will show her you are not cheating. Treat her with respect, don't check out other females when you are with her. Let her feel she is totally special to you. Hopefully in time she will trust you. Might be a long tie though.
2006-08-14 21:21:31 · answer #2 · answered by June V 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are truely NOT cheating on her, then it sounds like you have a girl in your life who doesn't trust men. There needs to be a time where she trusts or she will not have a long term relationship ever, becasuse she will push men away with her lack of trust.
I don't blame you for being upset. If she continues to not trust, then why be in the relationship. Before this, make sure your behaviour doens't make her think you are cheating,
Like...don't continue to get messages from X girl friends.
don't ever lie about where you are or what you are doing...a lie definatly will make anyone wonder what is going on .
When you are in a situation think to yourself. If my girlfriend was here would she approve of my behavior? if not.,.do something else
2006-08-14 21:24:24 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that you can do is tell her the truth. If she can't believe you, or if she can't get over a mistake you made...than no matter how much both of you want it to work, it's not going to work out. You can try giving her some time, but being around eachother and not getting along with only damage things further. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-08-14 21:20:38 · answer #4 · answered by noriahchapman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about why she would possibly think that you're cheating on her. Is your behaviour towards her consistent and predictable? Have you demonstrated that you can be trusted?
Chances are, she's just insecure about herself and your relationship, so try to reassure her, not only through words but through your actions. It will take a bit of time, but eventually she'll become more secure and less suspicious.
Best of luck! :o)
2006-08-14 21:20:04 · answer #5 · answered by epiCure 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well since your not cheating, be sure to not get defensive and stay calm. Sit down and ask her why she feels the way she does and answer all her concerns or questions honestly.
2006-08-14 21:21:07 · answer #6 · answered by Elle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you seriously did not cheat and you're telling her the truth and she's throwing a hissy fit over it, that's HER fault. She has no trust in you for whatever her reason is. Tell her she can either trust you or not, but you have no reason to lie to her otherwise.
2006-08-14 21:19:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
buy her cards, buy her flowers, cook for her, leave little cute notes laying around, and tell her every day how much you love her! Us woman tend to be jealous and insecure about the relationship...Ive accused my bf before and then i feel bad for doing it. I think its human instinct!
2006-08-14 21:20:31 · answer #8 · answered by ME 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look dude once a girl gets it in there mind that your cheating that's it she will always think that you are
2006-08-14 21:22:39 · answer #9 · answered by friscotx 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell her about something she has that no one else does. assure her it would be silly to cheat on her.
2006-08-14 21:19:57 · answer #10 · answered by Person 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont actually cheat on her........whoever said that obviously doesnt have a heart........just be like "hey, I love you....right?......so why would i cheat on you?" just keep assuring her.......dont give up........she could be the one.
2006-08-14 21:20:54 · answer #11 · answered by Laura_Kaleigh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋