I'll be going to college soon and need to know how too understand women, I don't know how to ask any girls out and I've lost all confidence...........can anyone help me?
2006-08-14 14:14:06 · 6 answers · asked by yankee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best way to help you understand women is to treat them like a human being rather than an object. We may process things differently because of the Y chromosome but girls are just human beings like you only with different body parts. If you've lost all confidence as you've mentioned first start by rebuilding it ---work out--- don't put any poison into your body, alcohol or drugs...In the end girls like guys who are successful so concentrate on your studies do the best you can. down the road you'll find most women are attracted to men who have done well for themselves. a good job comes to those who work hard in college! In regards to asking a girl out ..think worse case scenario...what's the worst that's gonna happen? she says no??you'll live!!! work on yourself....you'll gain self confidence by building a strong body and a strong mind! You'll do fine... and seriously, if the college you're attending offers Psychology of women classes or some other women studies classes TAKE 1 or two as an elective! You'll not only gain the intellectual advantage but the class will be full of GIRLS!!! best wishes...
2006-08-14 14:37:35 · answer #1 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh oh, he's shy.
1. Don't act like a geek
2. Be a gentleman
3. Don't say stupid things like "I check for you but I can't count"
4. You need to understand women are technical and you'll never understand us.
5. Be yourself (hopefully you're not a geek)
6. Personality always comes first, unless you meet a stupid girl that only wants to use you for your money. ( Hey there are some really good female players out there)
7. Remember women like men who are strong not just physically but emotionally, oh god please don't take that to be an over ego idiot.
8. Don't have sex with just anyone and for goodness sake don't get her pregnant. ( That's if you actually get yourself a girl friend)
9. Don't be afraid to speak up
10. Just enjoy college and simply make friends.
2006-08-14 21:31:45 · answer #2 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no guy understands women completly, just like women dont understand men completly. my advice is just be yourself and act confident,even if you're not. keep your chin up, and dont let neone put you down. if you want to talk with a girl just go up and introduce yourself, dont try any cheesey pickup lines. more than likely whoever you r talking to will be flattered that someone is talking to her. just ask her if she would like to have coffee or something sometime. ask for her number or give her yours. if whoever you r talking to says she isnt interested, dont get down on yourself. there are plenty of fish in the sea. just keep your head up and be yourself.
2006-08-14 21:24:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first off don't use pickup lines cuz they don't work, if u know she mite be interested then walk up to her start a conversation, get to know her, and about understanding women, every women is different, u just have to get to know the gurl you like, don't move too fast. understand her likes and dislikes
2006-08-14 21:24:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and Talk..Say; I love You...you'd love any female..'cos 1st time :)
1)You ll mess up..
Go and Talk...Say; I like you..Probably u cant
2)You'll mess up again..
Than you ll figure out, you dont have to say anything; just a look is enough...But hey..it's not everything :)
3)You'll mess up again...
I'm not an expert, but i can advise you to hang out with girls older than you.So, no fighting for simple things. And dont try to say anything, just say it..Good luck.
2006-08-15 16:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by ferhat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BOY THESE GIRLS IN COLLEGE R SLUTS AND THEYLL HAVE SEX WITH ANYONE AND EVERYONE EVEN EACHOTHER
2006-08-14 21:39:44 · answer #6 · answered by breszille 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋