I have this guy friend that I chill out with and we talk on the phone and 9 times out of 10 we end up having some 'phone fun'(u older ladies will undestand) Anyways as I am not very good with words(though actions I kick *** at) I have som trouble being erotic and sexy, as I tend to sometime be a mood killer. Im not asking how to have fun sex or whatever Im just asking for some pointers.....anyone???
2006-08-14 14:10:35 · 8 answers · asked by lolli_pop69_2001 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the whole point is that you have to begin to feel that you are sexy, from the inside out. Take a good look at yourself in front of a mirror and pick out all your wonderful qualities, thins that you love and think men would find appealing. Touch your face sensually and feel good about your self. And when you talk to him, your voice should be in a low raspy tone. Be explicit on every piece of detail, from the touch to the licks, be confident. Put something sexy on while you do this since you are new at this.
2006-08-14 14:19:01 · answer #1 · answered by Patricia A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Don't impersonate Disney characters, that spoils the mood.
2. Envisioning things like getting punched in the mouth with the ball gag still in, will also change the mood a bit.
3. Referring to your vagina as a "hot, wet axe wound" takes some of the steam out of the conversation.
Finally, stop mentioning his mom while he's touching himself. Limp noodles every single time.
Hope this helps
2006-08-14 14:19:25 · answer #2 · answered by Brandon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem.... so i let my strongest attributes do the work...and I bench my weakest. If you are having phone sex ... I guess you're just going to have to get better at talking about it. If you are having "real" fun with your partner, just stop talking...and start doing. We dont need you to talk to have a good time. The only talking I encourage...is dirty talk! :D Good luck
2006-08-14 14:33:08 · answer #3 · answered by the_thoughtless_ponderer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moaning is always good... Be yourself and be descriptive... Guys love it when you are very descriptive of what you are doing or fantasizing about or what you would do to them... Good Luck! :D
2006-08-14 14:15:02 · answer #4 · answered by ♥reeses*pieces♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you need to touch him a lot hold his hands look him in the eye when talking to him keep real close to him
2006-08-14 14:18:05 · answer #5 · answered by king s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read some erotic stories you'll get some ideas
2006-08-14 14:15:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just picture your self there, and slowly describe every little detail of what you would be doing to him ;)
Use lots of adjectives, paint a picture
2006-08-14 14:15:00 · answer #7 · answered by leahlovesspam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call me ,,,,
2006-08-14 14:15:32 · answer #8 · answered by palettman1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋