Dont you know thats gonna either push us away, or if we wait, we'll be getting it elsewhere. Sex is like breathing for guys!
2006-08-14 14:00:59 · 44 answers · asked by juju 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because they're EVIL
2006-08-14 14:03:37 · answer #1 · answered by Tony A 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Are you asking about young girls, still in High school. They should make you wait, if you care for them then you will wait.
Are you talking about young women, still in college, or trying to start a new career, who are not married to you?
If you really care, you will wait.
Are you talking about your wife? She also should be treated with love and respect. Try a little romance once in a while. No one likes to be taken for granted.
If you don't have the woman of your dreams, then you just go elsewhere, but be careful going elsewhere because there won't be any feelings for you elsewhere.Make sure your breathing preference isn't hazardous to your health.
2006-08-14 14:46:33 · answer #2 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy isn't willing to wait a bit, and get to know us first, he's not worth having...
How many guys dump girls that have sex with them on the first date because that proves she's promiscuous (or that's the bs reason I see posted all the time)...
If a guy can't do without sex for a few weeks, then he's got issues I don't want to deal with...I'm worth waiting for...and I won't take an unreasonable amount of time, but I'm going to make as sure as I can (for myself) that he's worthy of sharing my body with...
2006-08-14 14:08:30 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Evolutionarily, it is not in their best interest to.
If the only thing that mattered was genes, it makes sense for the
male to mate with as many females as possible to have as many
children as possible. That is how genes "succeed" evolutionarily.
Women, on the other hand, must commit 9 months to every
child prior to mating usefully again.
Therefore, women want someone who stays around and helps
with bringing up the children. She wants to be sure that
her initial choices won't leave her in the lurch.
However (and this is the kicker) ...
She wants to mate with guys who are promiscous so that her
children will be promiscuous and spread her genes.
That is, if promiscuousness is genetically linked, it makes sense
for women to want that trait in their children.
Now, we aren't all just products of our genes, but there are very
strong evolutionary arguments for why men and women have
their stereotypical mating behaviors.
By the way, if you don't believe me about women's urge to
mate with people who are promiscuous: More than 1/3rd of
the babies born in hospitals where blood typing and gene
matching are done cannot possibly be the child of the father
listed on the admission form.
2006-08-14 14:08:03 · answer #4 · answered by Elana 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh, maybe your attitude is the reason you're not getting laid. Most guys who are in serious relationships are able to wait a while without being pushed away. My boyfriend and I waited almost two years, and I can assure you there was no "elsewhere."
2006-08-14 14:05:41 · answer #5 · answered by angry 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not evil, its just that most women no the emotions will come out after sex happens and that will push you guys away faster. Also that we don't want to seem too easy either.
2006-08-14 14:05:31 · answer #6 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A woman thinks that pride, and dignity is important and not all men would like to meet a woman and have them open up like a fruit, some men like to watch a woman and see the intelligence that she has to know that some men might just be looking for a wife and not just a one night stand.
2006-08-14 14:20:24 · answer #7 · answered by cute_girl_shantie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is really emotional for women and we need to know the man is goint to stay around or it messes with our heads. It tears up our hearts and our souls. Just use your hand if you need your organ to breathe. Not a woman we have a soul. Sorry, but we are not there to service the organ we are humans with hearts and souls.
2006-08-14 14:05:28 · answer #8 · answered by adobeprincess 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, because if we react on it when we really want to, which is generally pretty early on, we tend to be looked at differently. Besides, do you truely want a girl that you can get in bed on the first night? That usually ends the night and consequently the courtship, because for the guy, he conquered his quest.
2006-08-14 14:06:05 · answer #9 · answered by Lemme tell ya... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything good is worth the wait. With your attitude, no wonder girls don't give it up right away. If you can't wait then you're not worth giving it to. We are not like guys when it comes to sex. Having first time sex, to us, is giving our body to you. We want to be important to you, more than just sex.
2006-08-14 14:05:52 · answer #10 · answered by *Larry P. he's for me* 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Because men make women wait for an emotionally-satisfying relationship because all too many men are concerned FAR too much with themselves and their toys and their games...
Love goes BOTH ways, guys...
2006-08-14 14:08:51 · answer #11 · answered by KnowhereMan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋