Wats the best way to get over a guy???

Answer 1

Keep busy, try not to see him or call him. Believe it time does heal. And keep your heart open to others. You never know who you might meet.

Answer 2

The best way to get over a guy is to keep your mind on something else. If you work really get into it while you are there. At home when the hurt starts creeping in on you take a warm bath. Set a couple of candles on the vanity so the light will flicker in the mirror. Sip a Small glass of wine and listen to soft music. Let it all carry you. Just carry you wight out of your misery.

Hope this helps!

Answer 3

There will be some guys we never get over. But in time they become a memory.
Part of life is loss. The best way to get over a loss is to keep busy. Step outside of your missery.
You do need to let yourself grieve. Have a good cry when you need to.
Hope is another way to get out of the pain. There is a hole in your heart, it will be replaced hopefully in the future by another guy.
Just make sure that you don't make guys responsible for your idenity or your well being. Because...they will let you down.
Be strong and have the ability to stand alone as a woman.
then when there is a man in your life he will add to your joy, not be your only reason for living.

Answer 4

Girl, we've been looking for an anser to this for a million years...yeah, they say 'time heals all wounds'...it takes more than just time and I know this from experience. I'm no teenager, I'm 59 years old and trying to get over a guy for 4 months now. What we have to do is try to keep very busy. Concentrate on school or work, whichever you do. Stay away from places he may go to. Don't listen to sad songs, I've been listening to old heavy metal which I hate but at least it's not sad. I volunteer at a local group home for people with disabilities, I go to the YMCA and swim some laps and use the exercise machines. I spend more time with my family and friends. I got everything that reminded me of him out of my sight (of course I just put them in a box in my cellar, I couldn't throw them away)! Do the opposite of everything you did with him. When you feel ready find someone who is the complete opposite of him! But most of alll....Good Luck!

Answer 5

it isn't easy, the best thing to do is always remember there is someone better, even though it may not seem like it, you must think about your dignity at all times and self respect, think of the fact that he was just not who you thought he would be and if he cheated on you, well that should really want to make you get over him, or anything of that nature, think you are loved by others, friends family, etc. and you will love again and you will be valued by someone worthwhile.

Answer 6

Distraction -- think about another guy, or find a new hobby. Once you stop making that guy the centre of your universe, everything will fall back into perspective and you'll be able to move on. It takes time though, so have patience in the meantime.

Good luck. :o)

Answer 7

Your question only implies that you love him.. Love is a state of mind. What has he done to make you believe he is right for you? Does he ever cater to your needs? Does he often ask you if you would like something to drink or eat when he gets something for himself? Does he often complement you? Can he provide for you if you ever were to marry? Does he ever simply touch you or hold your hand without wanting sex. Does he really listen when you are speaking to him or waiting for a chance to speak himself? Think about it love is indeed a state of mind. You love many people. Find someone else. That will without doubt make you get over him.

Answer 8

Get out of the house! Delete his number and if you remember it...DO NOT USE IT. No texting, no calling, no contact. If you see him, pretend you don't know him...keep on walking (yes, that part hurts). If you must speak to him, keep it brief and don't make eye contact. Last but not least, GET ANOTHER GUY (or two or three)...even one you don't like much, it'll get your mind off things and you'll feel better before you know it. Oh, yeah...have sex (if you're old enough), don't let him be the last guy you slept with.

Answer 9

When I catch myself thinking about his during shopping- I think
"Does he think about me when he shops?." Probably not. Forget
him. When I'm sitting by the phone wishing he would call, I think
"Is he sitting around by his phone pining about me and wishing I
would call?" Probably not.

When I hear our favorite song and it makes me cry- I have to stop and think whether he cries when he hears that song- Probably not. Forget him.

Then I realize just how much time I am wasting pining for him.
So, I work on myself a bit. And don't rush getting in to the dating
scene as I'm prone to rebound- not a good idea. Think of all
the extra time you will have to catch up on reading & friends.

Next year at this time, you won't remember how to spell his
last name.

Answer 10

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