Please help!?

Question

There's this guy who approach me about 5 months ago and we have grown to be great friends. The other day, i asked him how he feel about me and he said that i was a nice person, someone to lookup to, someone to depend on, and someone to help out in time of need, and a good friend to talk to, so I am asking do I have a chance of taking this relat. to another level and do you think he will like me. do I need to come straightout and say it.

please be serious and I am 23 years old, so I am not a kid.

we have been out with each other, he calls reguarlly (2X today). He walks me out and gives me a hug before leaving, he have kissed me, and we have wrapped up 2gether and watched movies together. and he invites me over once a week for a movie. Does he really like me or he is being a little friendly.

Answer 1

have you guys spent alone time together? suggest a more intimate outing next time - like a romantic restaurant. just say something like "i've been dying to try this place out, let's go!" try to steer the conversation towards relationships about how they should have a solid foundation of friendship...hint, hint, lol. send all the signals he needs. use every opportunity to be close, brush hands against eachother, hug, etc. in the end i would just kiss him by surprise and see what his reaction is.

yeah, it could all blow up in your face but you're not gonna know unless you try...

Answer 2

From what you say I would be careful.
As individuals we each have x amount of problems which we can cope with.
If we become involved with a person who cannot handle their own problems you end up with double the amount eventually it will collapse.
Take care!

Answer 3

I myself wouldn't rush in and express my feelings straight out,he might not only say no,but he might start feeling uncomfortable around you,and it sounds like you have a pretty good friendship.I would ask questions without sounding to obvious,when your talking to him next.Hope it all works out for you,best of luck.