if you just met a man say about 6 wks ago and you have a baby under 8-10 mos old would you let the new guy take your baby on a walk in the stroller all by himself? Im not sure of the relationship(dont think its serious, but it might be one day) other than hes cute and hes screwing you
2006-08-14 13:42:02 · 17 answers · asked by chorizobagel 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Sorry, forgot to mention, this is not my baby im talking about. I saw my ex of 3 months(who, by the way left me brokenhearted), just yesterday as I was driving by, pushing someones baby (pretty sure, its not his) in a stroller right by my apt complex and not I didnt stop to say anything
2006-08-14 14:02:06 · update #1
Dont you trust a babysitter after knowing them for a few minutes to be alone with your kids?
2006-08-14 14:07:07 · update #2
I'm not a single mom any more but I was for several years. And the answer to your question is NO WAY IN HELLL would I let a man that I barely know take my child anywhere alone! Your job as a parent is to protect your kids at all times and you have no idea what this man is capable of doing.
And I do not feel that a normal man with good intentions would even ask a woman he just started dating if he could take the baby out by himself! If I were you I would be very, very cautious of this man.
2006-08-14 13:50:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmmm that would be a big NO!! You don't know this person well enough and if you do it really shows how much you DON'T have regard for your child's safety and wellbeing!!! And I a AM a single mother. I would never let any man that I chose to become involved with meet my child until i was sure of the relationship and trusted the person much less let them take my child for a walk by himself!!! you sound like a real winner!!
2006-08-14 20:50:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I'm a single mom and I wouldn't let him take my child anywhere yet. Especially a child that can't talk or defend themselves if he tries to touch them or do something crazy to them. Tell him he can only go with both of you. If he is a good man, he will respect your wishes.
2006-08-14 21:11:16 · answer #3 · answered by chocolatebabycakes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a single mom and I would never let a guy I just met a few weeks ago be around my daughter by himself. Thats just asking for trouble. Just because you two are having sex already doesn't mean he should be by himself with your kid.
2006-08-14 20:49:29 · answer #4 · answered by L♥G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be careful with my child. I am not saying he would do anything to harm your baby but better safe than sorry. You haven't known him that long so I would wait and see how much you can trust him. Most men are not abusive to children in anyway so watch how he interacts with your child. Good luck.
2006-08-14 20:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not, just because I would rather be safe than sorry. He may be the safest person in the world. However, in my experience you can know someone for years and never really know them.
Then again, when it comes to me and men, I find it hard to trust them.
2006-08-14 20:51:01 · answer #6 · answered by jimsdaughter3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, absolutely not. I would not even let the guy around my kids after only 6 weeks.
2006-08-14 20:47:58 · answer #7 · answered by tg 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as a parent you can not trust anyone these days as you see on the news all the bad stuff happening. Not unless they knew this person before.
2006-08-15 00:05:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most certainly not. he maybe nice but you don't no this guy well enough to no how he reacts around a child by his self, and plus you don't want your child getting close to man you might be with in the long run.
2006-08-14 20:54:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does he want to in the first place? it isn't his kid. I wouldn't let him. I don't let just anyone take my kids anywhere. Not that he isn't a good guy, just would never be good enough for my kids.
2006-08-14 20:48:11 · answer #10 · answered by jen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋