A while back it seemed like this girl and I were getting pretty close. She talked to me a lot, spent time alone at times, touched me on the shoulder and arm, and leaned on me. I, taken aback by our rapidly-growing friendship, decided to back off a bit to let her know I was not interested. She proceeded to send her sister a few weeks later to ask me if I was mad at her. I felt terrible! Anyway, I quickly "made up" and we are on speaking terms again. Two days ago I saw her again, and she spent an hour alone talking to me while the other 18 in our group did other things. She shared some dreams and secrets that she said she had not told anyone. We discussed several romantic topics like it was nothing, and she asked if I considered her like a "good sister." I think she looked my way a few times, and anytime I said something she seemed to hear every word. Needless to say, I think she likes me still, and I am beginning to grow a bit of an affection at her seeming persistence.Does she seem to?
2006-08-14 13:35:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like it could lead to love.
2006-08-14 13:40:23 · answer #1 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard the old saying giving time they grow on you i think you may be a little scared to ask yourself if you really like her when she asked you if she was like a good sister what did you tell her cause she is very interested in more that a sister and friend ship is already there cause she listen to every thing you have to say cause it is important to her so ask your self sister or girlfriend smile
2006-08-14 20:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she seem to... what? (I don't get your last sentence.)
Nonetheless, it's obvious that she's interested in you as more than a friend. Even if you don't respond to someone's flirtations in a romantic way, it doesn't mean she's going to stop liking you. To the contrary -- the fact that you seem to appreciate her friendship has apparently only inspired her to try harder.
Why not take her up on her advances? Girls who like you to begin with are much less of a headache than ones you have to pursue.
2006-08-14 20:46:42 · answer #3 · answered by Blenderhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's love. u don't like her or what she's showing how interested she is whit u. Maybe she told u if she was good sister cuz she wanted to know what would u say. So it's real love.
2006-08-14 20:45:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say don't beat around the bush and that u to should straightin things out . I'm not say be direct but don't be talkin about one thing when u want to say somethin else.
2006-08-14 20:42:07 · answer #5 · answered by catfeet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just ask her what will yall relationship lead to. tell you startin to have feelings for her and if she jus wants a friendship it's ok with you. if she wants to make it out to more then let it be.
2006-08-14 20:49:21 · answer #6 · answered by Lashay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please back off for her well being you're only trouble for her the way that you are acting currently
2006-08-14 20:40:13 · answer #7 · answered by fan1906 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is lust, not love
2006-08-14 20:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋