Can you tell me what can I look out for in guys that seem really friendly and giving if they aren't being truthful?
I had a friend for a year who acted like he was my best friend, but when he got a girlfriend avoided me like the plague and never ever called again (6 months now, what a good friend he was, right?)
I read that some guys rather disappear than tell you what's really on his mind!
I've been hurt too many times by guys who act like they really interested and then do the disappearing act. How can I see if they really mean what they say?
2006-08-14 13:31:16 · 15 answers · asked by cifurtrue 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he starts trying to wear your clothes - run away.
2006-08-14 13:34:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew the answer to this question. It's happened to me before too and I know how hard it is. My mind was stuck on this guy for many months after we "broke up" or actually after he quit calling me or answering my phone calls. I got his point but I didn't want to give up because I loved him. If it conforts you, I can tell you that it's just some of the guys' way of dealig with it. They're not strong and brave enough to face you and your and their feelings. The best thing to do though is just move on and go out with other guys. It's a lottery and you can never be sure especially from the begining when you don't really know them. But just have fun and be strong. These exoeriences will help you decide which guy is really the one for you. Good luck!
2006-08-14 20:41:08 · answer #2 · answered by Dally J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only natural. How would you like it if you had a boyfriend and he kept in close contact with another girl. It's only natural. You have to call him and lighten up. Your relationship is different when a person gets a girlfriend.
You begin by saying you were friends, but in your last statements you talk about thinking guys were interested in you but they were'nt. It's obvious you liked this guy more than just friends. Be honest with your feelings and don't just assume or think someone feels a certain way.
It takes 2 to communicate and/or not communicate.
2006-08-14 20:38:50 · answer #3 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are in the same boat but women do the same to me it seems.
Look out for: Trying too hard, impressing too much, cocky, arrogant and actually kind of rude but trying to be funny about it. Like crude.
Good luck!
2006-08-14 20:37:18 · answer #4 · answered by Chef 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its very simple....I cant believe you are asking this...
He wasn't your real friend, he was looking something more in you and when he found it in her girlfriend, he didn't need you anymore.
Next time, see if the guy ask you out, if he likes to pay things for you, they way he looks at you.....
A guy that likes you and want to be with you, will tell you.
and don't worry,,, you will notice that he likes you...
If you date a guy and you think he likes you, .... kiss him to see what happens.
2006-08-14 20:43:28 · answer #5 · answered by Casanova 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your friend's gf might think you of a threat because you guys were such good friends, so ur friend trys to avoid you. you need to gain some basic trust first, then you can kinda figure it out later on whether he is lying or not.
2006-08-21 19:54:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always tell when a person is lying...it's in his expression & eyes. plus, if there with u for a short time and then gone.. then he's just playing you and or moreless using u for anything & everything... and your better off without him, you can find someone that actually cares.
2006-08-22 13:40:11 · answer #7 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first! guys will always try to get into your pants!if they don`t have a girl friend at the time.but! if you stick around and he finds someone else,and it`s easy he will just go the other way. until he is bored them he will come back to you. and try you again.
2006-08-14 20:40:26 · answer #8 · answered by horseknickers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its natural guy behaviour okay of course we avoid confrontation so we dont have to show our emotions i *think* he likes but then when got into a relationship he was told by the gf to avoid you
2006-08-14 20:38:10 · answer #9 · answered by teenchatter10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get they're best friends to snoop around 4 u
2006-08-14 20:36:49 · answer #10 · answered by tallballa07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋