really, really nice, wealthy but not exciting
vs.
really, really hot, turn-me-on exciting but not good to me
37 year old party princess looking to retire her crown
2006-08-14 13:11:42 · 24 answers · asked by Court111 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Baby, and please say the baby......you know you want the a$$hole because he is fun and quick witted like I am.....and you know you want all that MONEY that the other boring loser has.....I would go with the jerk who has a personality, because you know all you can do is spend money, but personalitys like the "exciting" on you are talking about only come so often.
Think about it......when was the last time a guy came along in your life that was REALLY exciting to be around? Its not very often because most guys are fake, and you and I both know how to tell the real and fake a$$ people from one another.
CHOSE the ******, and thank me.
2006-08-14 13:20:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the really really nice - wealthy one.
Having been down both paths in life.... the exciting- not nice one, will cause you serious un-happiness after the "excitement" wears off.
The second time I married the nice nice nice -not wealthy guy- but I am happier than I have ever been in my life.
Not nice to you - no matter how good the sex is .... isn't worth it in the long run. If they aren't nice to you- then they don't respect you and they will not be loyal to you. Why would you throw away a chance to have a nice comfortable life with someone you can count on, to be with someone that treats you like crap?
Good Luck.
Terri
2006-08-14 20:19:41 · answer #2 · answered by Night Train 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the someone who is good to you! If you're really looking to settle down it's time to move past the hot bad boys with no substance.
Maybe neither of these is the right one, you may have to look a little longer to find someone that thinks of you as more than just a party princess and a good time. You want someone that you can see long time relationship potential with and who sees the same in you.
2006-08-14 20:18:49 · answer #3 · answered by KyLeth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the nice guy, sugar. Trust me. If you are really looking to retire your crown, as you say, bachelor #1, who is nice, loves you, and better yet, has $$$, will be in it for the long haul. It's better to settle down with a nice guy than to chase after hormonal creeps. Trust me.
Again, this all depends on where you are at. If you want fun and a nice little fling, go with #2- although my personal instinct would tell me NEVER to go with anyone who has not been good to you. But the real contender is #1- even if he is not exciting or cute, he is dependable- and that's a rarity in anyone. Settle down with him if you are ready to settle.
2006-08-14 20:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Fancy Pants 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one that you love. I'm the same way. The nice guy that you're not loving will never do it for you. I think part of why you like the other guy is because he's a challenge. Go out, but don't marry this guy. See if being exclusive and together changes how he treats you. If it doesn't neither one of them are right, and start looking.
2006-08-14 20:18:05 · answer #5 · answered by julielove327 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one that is good to you of course!!!!!
You might decide to go out with the hot, exciting guy who doesn't treat you well, but you will eventually end up with the nice dependable one if he is still around.
2006-08-14 20:19:33 · answer #6 · answered by polygolightly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 37 you should be getting over whatever limited attraction "bad boys" once held for you. Forget exciting ... you are considering growing old with this person. Nice wins hands down.
2006-08-14 20:19:21 · answer #7 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they can both do better than you from what you are writing. Why would they want a 37 year old party princess unless either one of them is 20 years older than you.
2006-08-14 20:16:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither - if you take the one that likes you - and has the money - you're a gold-digger...... if you take the one that turns you on but treats you bad in general - you'll be wasting your time with a loser - and looks fade
2006-08-14 20:18:25 · answer #9 · answered by missnotabot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the one you love, take a chance. If it doesn't work out, there's always the hope the one who loves you will still be hanging around.
2006-08-14 20:17:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋