posted 1ce before but i want more opinions..........ok well i had a thing with this girl i liked... she said she really liked me and all that... but then all of the sudden one day and i look and shes going back out with her ex... she said o yea well lets be friends for now and maybe future we will go out... so she led me on basically and i told her that after she broke up with her ex later and shes said o yea im sorry u have a reason to be mad and stuff... then she proves to me (by sending me a convo with her friend) about how shes not leading me on this time and she really likes me... so i believed it and we had a thing i guess we went out and all that... then just last night she said she doesnt have feelings for n e one... basically she led me on again... should i even bother with her after she led me on twice in a row?
2006-08-14 11:33:41 · 21 answers · asked by T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello Tyler,
No Tyler, you shouldn't even bother. What's wrong with you, man? You need to get some more experience with actual girls that are interested in you and don't bother with the players and the girls who play head games.
I hope that you will actually learn a lesson or two about girls. But, you really need to open your eyes, OK? If some girl that you are interested in is seeing another guy, it's "Hands Off". It's always Bro before Ho's. Don't be some girl's pet that you follow around when she needs more attention. You're feeding her need for attention. Don't do that.
Instead find a girl that isn't attached. They are around and are probably looking for a good boy like you.
Also, you need to check out the Tom Leykis radio show to learn more about what to do. Find out if this show is broadcast in your area. Here's his web site:
http://www.blowmeuptom.com
I hope that this helps.
--Rick
2006-08-14 11:50:15 · answer #1 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And age old secret I'll share with you. If you don't have trust in an relationship. You have nothing. She's already broken your trust twice. Even if you get together and grow even stronger feelings for her. In the back of your mind you'll always be watching and waiting for that other shoe to drop.
You seem to have a big heart. And you will find someone that won't use you. As long as you open yourself up for someone else. Instead of waiting for her. Be a doormat guarantee someone will uses it.
Another proverb. Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. Do you want to risks your feelings a third time.:)
2006-08-14 18:42:12 · answer #2 · answered by Balou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not even bother with that girl. She sounds like a Biaaaaaatch lol So just move on and I'm sure you will find a real girl who wont lead you on and will show you her true feelings. By the way have you heard the saying: Trick me once, shame on you. Trick me twice, shame on me. In other words forget about her. She already tricked you two times. Good luck!!
Ciao~
2006-08-14 18:57:53 · answer #3 · answered by a_cute_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! that's all I have to say. Girls are faltered by the chase. But the thing is, when she starts noticing that you are constantly chasing her, and she keeps playing around with you,
You need to move on. She fills that she can continue to play around because your there. Pull that safe blanket from up under her feet, and let her see.....she can't keep playing games.
2006-08-14 18:41:24 · answer #4 · answered by Lepolion H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is obvious this chick likes to play games. You have to decided when you are done play her game and move on. As long as she knows that she can keep coming back and leaving she will do it. It is up to you to stop her dead in her tracks. After all how much do you value your self worth?
2006-08-14 18:41:26 · answer #5 · answered by ladydayjazzyblu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. If she can't make up her mind now, what's going to change in the future? Find a girl that respects your feelings. This girl isn't it.
2006-08-14 18:38:53 · answer #6 · answered by Steph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...don't bother.
I did that with a chick in college. All it lead to was trouble.
Find someone who is honest. Or try a prostitute.
They won't mess with you after you have paid. Real women make you pay and pay and pay. And then you still might not get any.
2006-08-14 18:40:20 · answer #7 · answered by dvz88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be led on once ... okay, it happens to everyone. Twice, and you have to wonder why aren't you learning from your mistakes. To contemplate putting yourself out there again is just asking to be kicked. Forget her and find someone who appreciates your loyalty.
2006-08-14 18:42:40 · answer #8 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are almost halfway there . soon you will realize exactly how a woman operates and how far she can drag your *** through the dirt. Do this now not when it too late and you get married. Stay with her till your afriad you might beat her up.
2006-08-14 18:40:30 · answer #9 · answered by I trust Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is playing with your feelings like that she doesnt care of you at all... anyone who dares to plays with someone else's feelings is not worthy... so dont bother!
There are surely better girls out there... I promise
2006-08-14 18:40:20 · answer #10 · answered by Aija 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋