People(friends, family, lots more, etc.) tell me that I'm pretty or a "natural/classic beauty" and have a great personality. Sometimes I may not know a person for long, like if I meet them at a party, they even say things along that line. Even so, if this is true how come guys don't pay attention to me or talk to me? ( I'm a sopghmore in high school)
And for all you people who like to say odd things:
Yes I DO shower, twice a day in fact
2006-08-14 11:26:54 · 26 answers · asked by ♥PrInCeSs♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most likely you are pretty. And young. And because you are young, the boys that would be hitting on you are also young. And insecure. And therefore they don't dare to hit on you, because you are so pretty. And so on...
Wait a few years, and you may have a different problem on your hands.
2006-08-14 11:32:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and people's tastes change with age. Most guys don't know exactly what they want in a girl at your age. You have some self esteem issues, which are common among teenagers. You don't have confidence that you're good looking, you just listen to what other people tell you. Therefore, you probably don't have a clear view of what guys think of you, and you may intimidate guys without meaning to in one way or another. If you're shy, that could be a major factor! Otherwise, you could ward guys off by being rude, but you don't seem like that type at all. The best thing to do would be to try to make a lot of friends who are guys and don't rush into a relationship. The right moment will come along soon enough. Be patient.
2006-08-14 11:32:46 · answer #2 · answered by ioncayah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol.... ur first mistake is caring too much about what people think about you. remember, these are all compiments that people are giving you, and i'm sure u realize that you are very beautiful. that's awesome! u got the looks part down. :) now u have to get in touch w/ ur confidence, and ur personality. are u confident about yourself? do u feel beautiful? do u feel happy, positive, and great? if u do, awesome! don't worry, u will definitely catch a cutie. but if u don't, work on it! continue to study hard in school, learn a lot about news, be able to talk to anyone and everyone about different topics. if u feel beautiful, and u feel Smart, u will never be scared to talk to anyone. and u won't worry if people do or don't like u, cuz ur so busy trying to find good friends out there! always be positive, happy, and confident, and u will attract those kinds of people. u will see that if u smile more, just be comfortable in ur own skin, u will attract people in general. not just guys, but Friends. that is important...so that u will be comfortable w/ anyone, and then u'll be able to Choose from the many great people around u, who is good enough. instead of worrying if u are good enough for someone else. :) keep working hard on school, and on ur personality, and on ur confidence, and u will stop worrying so much about people. work on maintaining and growing new relationships, and u will meet someone worthy of ur attention!
2006-08-14 11:34:59 · answer #3 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You say you have a great personality - but how do you know? Moreover,
do you come across as potentially available? If you seem closed off, men
will probably hold off because they don't need the rejection.
You can perhaps get rid of that image by making sure you go along
on various group outings so that guys can see that you have fun and you
don't always have the senior captain of the football team hanging around you.
And of course ... YOU COULD ASK SOMEONE OUT YOURSELF.
Ask someone you aren't intimidated by - circulate. Worst he can do is
say "no" and then you'll know what every guy out there is scared of.
2006-08-14 11:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you are a late bloomer. You may be told you are a classic beauty now with a great personality but maybe you are shy or don't stand out. But don'tworry about that one day you will...and when you do the whole world will notice the way you light up a room. Hang in there!!!
2006-08-14 11:33:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have a classic beauty, it can be intimidating for guys. Girl-next-door cute works better for high school guys. Once you get older (I know that's a horrible phrase) guys won't be so scared of being turned down, and they'll pay LOTS of attention to you. :)
2006-08-14 11:31:47 · answer #6 · answered by Jan S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes very pretty women can be VERY intimidating, especially to high school age guys. Don't worry, that's a goos problem to have. Try making yourself more approachable and accessible, don't be afraid to strike up conversations on your own. Just be yourself and have fun, we like girls who are fun to be around, nothing more, nothing less.
2006-08-14 11:33:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, the way you look (and your hygiene) is only one part of what makes the "you" that other people see.
It is probably something about your behavior, not your looks, that is causing guys not to approach you.
If you have female friends, you might ask one who you trust to tell you the truth as they see it.
Good luck.
2006-08-14 11:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because, most people in relationships don't base love off of looks. It's your inner beauty, people are going to look for that, and maybe not as much as just your outward appearance. Check yourself!
2006-08-14 11:31:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably the guys are not looking for a quality girl, just a girl w/low self respect.do you know what I mean? guys may not be talking to you but they are looking.stay sweet and keep your personality and respect and wait for a guy who will be all you dream of
2006-08-14 11:34:16 · answer #10 · answered by chays 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋