I wonder sometimes a big heart to my detrement and loyal if in love and giving till i die. Yet i cant seem to find a true person out there whos not shallow and is pretty both inside and out not selfish and can love me for me cuz thats all i can be.
2006-08-14 11:25:46 · 29 answers · asked by austin4life1977 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i tell ya im open to all criticism and thank you all its hard to ask that question and get an honest response but i tell ya im down and depressed and im just tired of the games and BS you know. Dating nowadays is so damn hard and i hate it i really do. But thank you all im taking it all to heart. i know i sound like a puussy but thats how i am i have a heart unlike most guys so again thank you for all the comments ill use alot of the advice including the bad advice
2006-08-14 11:38:53 · update #1
Obviously, your not going to find it on yahoo questions. Keep looking, you'll find her!
2006-08-14 11:30:55 · answer #1 · answered by flower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are. You know what you want and it sounds like you are willing to do anything to make someone happy. Let me give you some advice. If you go on a date, you need to ask things that really matter. Don't ask things like, whats your sign, when is your birthday, do you have any pets etc. Ask things that are really important to YOU. Ask if one day they would like to get married (maybe not on the first date) or what do they look for in a guy, or what they think their best personality trait is. Deep questions. Trust me, the girl will love it because it shows that you are interested in a relationship and that you know what you want and you're not just looking for some action and they will respect you. If her answers aren't what you are looking for then you will know right away and you won't have to be dating for a year before you find out and you wouldn't have wasted that much time. You will find what you are looking for one day.Hope this helps. Good luck.
2006-08-14 11:36:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like the perfect relationship material, If the nice things you do are not appreciated, then you just have not found the perfect women yet. I thought I would never find a man that knew how to treat a women, but I finally did and believe me it was worth the wait, It is hard sometimes when you are lonely to wait for the right one to come along, but you will find it, if you don't try to rush it. My word of advise is try hard to not seem desperate to women, sometimes letting them know you are interested and then letting them make the next move is what attracts some women, and try to get involved in activities that you enjoy, A man who does fun things on his own seem to make women want to join you in these activities, and never tell a women how lonely you are, It makes them wonder why no one wants to be around you, and have a happy go lucky attitude, it will attract what you are looking for.Things are not like they use to be, women like men who somewhat play hard to get.Don't appear to be desperate or you will turn women away.Don't settle for less than you deserve.
2006-08-14 12:19:00 · answer #3 · answered by helpme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah u r realtionship material it's just that u attract the wrong guys who r shallow nad doesn't c u 4 what u reallly r. NOW if u r looking 4 someone perfect u will never find that not even if u draw him on papre no one is perfect. The best things comes in the starngest packages now remember that!!!!!11
2006-08-14 11:33:43 · answer #4 · answered by Italian Empress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you sound well trained and house broken. What else could a girl want? LOL NEway....it's tough out there trying to find the "one". You'll find her and when you do it will be worth wait.
And yes you do sound like bf material, but here's your problem....you sound too nice (I know it's an oxymoron) and willing. Try acting a little bit like a bad boy or player. Then once you get the girl then you can be all nice and sweet. She'll be happy because she will think she changed you and you changed for her and you'll be happy because you found the "one".
Good Luck
2006-08-14 11:33:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you're probably not in the kind of social setting to find that kind of girl. Find some things you REALLY like doing and then find a place where others gather that like it, too. Then you may find her standing there waiting for you, just as tired of the shallow scene as you are.
I like those qualities too, so I look in yoga classes or my church, or really anything with a spiritual flavor. That's where you get away from shallow stuff.
2006-08-14 13:33:30 · answer #6 · answered by Peter Pan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you ARE "looking too hard" or trying too hard to find ms. perfect.
Just chill out & BE YOU ... You'll find the woman that will love you for you ....By: Being You! Also don't nit pick over every little thing about the girl .. the things you aren't crazy about.. Look at the things that you love about her... Once you get that mind set .. The little things you once found annoying about her.. you will love!
Thats what love is.. If you want someone to accept you for YOU..
Then you also have to love them for them..
You have flaws, & annoying things that you do Just like she does also.
2006-08-14 11:35:28 · answer #7 · answered by Joeysol'lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are dating the jerks that mistreat them and they are too stupid to get out of those relationships.
Just kidding! There are good women out there, you have to look in the right places. Just like the song says "you have to shop around"
Be picky, do not settle for the first thing the comes along. Good luck
2006-08-14 11:32:13 · answer #8 · answered by Annie R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to yahoo personals and get the 7 day free trial and see how that works for ya. i went on there and found my husband on the second day. just put what you realy want in life and what kind of woman you realy want to spend that life with, but be an open minded person to an extent, and good luck! the right person will come at the right time, not our own time.
2006-08-14 11:30:52 · answer #9 · answered by Blonds Rock 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you aren't looking in the right place. I'm sure there is a perfectly nice girl out there who is willing to treat you the same way. I met my boyfriend through a good friend of mine who thought we'd get along well, and it's been two years in September. Hang in there.
2006-08-14 11:31:50 · answer #10 · answered by every1lovesamixedgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really good luck There are nice woman out there Where..I am not sure It is hard very hard
More than likely it isn't you it is the kind of woman you are attracting and it sounds like they are missing out
2006-08-14 11:31:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋