i met this guy at work and he told i'm beautiful. he gave me his phone number to call him, but i don't know if i should or not. i won't see him anymore since i have to go back to school, and i don't know whether i should contact him or not. please help.
2006-08-14 11:23:42 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. He is too old.
I was in that EXACT situation when I was 17 - it even happened on work. The guy turned out to be a jerk.
You have to ask yourself - why isn't this guy dating 25 year old girls?
2006-08-14 11:27:48 · answer #1 · answered by Mary 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really like a guy, make sure you get him arrested for statutory rape! No, you idiot. You know it's a stupid idea. He probably doesn't know how young you are, and if he does, he's a scumbag. Find a guy below 21 to date so you don't get him convicted for messing around with a minor. Geez, I thought 17 year olds were smarter. In fact, just skip the guys altogether and concentrate on school--make sure to read a bunch of stuff on teenage mothers and birth control and welfare. Read about child exploitation and labor laws and the fight to get Planned Parenthood and safe birth control and Roe vs. Wade. Educate yourself and you'll see what a bad idea it is to even call him. If he truly loves you (and he probably doesn't, but this is hypothetical), he'll wait until it's legal to get involved with you. Till then, don't call him!
2006-08-14 11:30:50 · answer #2 · answered by SlowClap 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, the age difference isn't really a big deal, but since you are still in high school it kind of is a big deal at this point. This guy is older than you and a lot more experienced. He may think you are beautiful - but he may want to take advantage of you or he might want a real relationship - it could go either way.
It's really up to you if you want to date him. Are you comfortable dating someone who is so much older than you, while you are still in high school? Are your parents okay with it? If it was me, I'd probably leave him alone and go for a guy more my own age.
2006-08-14 11:28:23 · answer #3 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
think of this and this is the truth you can look it up. ROLLING STONES BASS PLAYER Bill Wyman met a 13 year old girl and when she turned 18 he married her.
Jerry Seinfeld when in his 30's dated a 17 year old girl
Elvis was of legal age when he met priscilla and dated her, she was only 15
ENOUGH SAID.
2006-08-14 20:28:48 · answer #4 · answered by aguyinthewoods 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!! He is waaaay too old. Maybe when you're 25 and he's 33 it's more ok. But right now it's just wrong (and illegal). It's like a 16 year old dating an 8 year old. ewww!!
2006-08-14 11:29:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a little old for you, sweetie. You didn't say if you liked him or not, just that he told you you were beautiful. That concerns me. If you are going to call him just because he said you were beautiful, and don't have any romantic feelings toward him, then you are cheating both him and you.
2006-08-14 11:31:08 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why aren't u seeing him anymore?
too young, u mean too old. Hell yes. Or heck in ur case. It's illegal! I know 25 y/o guys, they are not as mature as u think, stay AWAY. I know guys in hs are immature and pervs, but all guys are kinda that way but u need to stay away. I'm an adult, so trust me.
2006-08-14 11:28:24 · answer #7 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol its really up to you i met my husband when I was a jr in high school and he was 24, i think its fine but i would make sure your parents dont mind first, if they dont like it then I wouldent try anything with him. but my husband and I have been married for almost a year, i am not saying that will happen but you never know. btw as long as your parents know he wont get thrown in jail. dont listen to other people how most likey have never been in the same sistuation as you. like i said just make sure your parents are ok with it. first.
2006-08-14 11:29:45 · answer #8 · answered by JOJO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a go.. you'll never know unless you give it a try. i was 16 when i met my husband and he was 24. we've been with each other for over 16 yrs and happily married for 5 of that 16. of course not everone agreed and everyone thought for sure it would never last but look at us now huh.we're happy and we have 3 boys.
2006-08-14 11:30:55 · answer #9 · answered by kris 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't contact him, guys that age will want sex, in which you would be a very big temptation , and he will go to jail for it when caught. it was a fun thing for you , but in the long run , it will only bring misery. if you are so smitten with him, tell him if he is still available when you are emancipated, you would like to go out with him. and leave it at that. girls your age are so eager to feel love that you can be blinded very easily.
2006-08-14 11:31:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋