I ask my girlfriend if she was up to my fantasy, and she said it was cool, i want to see her having sex with other guys, the just thought makes me so horny about her, i cant wait.
Do you think i am doing wrong?
2006-08-14 11:23:42 · 29 answers · asked by Wilfred 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You all might be right. But I love her and I love the best for her, I want to give her more pleasure than any, surely she might like someone's better in bed (i doutbt someone is better than me though ;) ) but, that doent mean she will leave me, love is a different thing, and if it happens that she fells in love with someone else because of this, I will be happy she found someone better and will wish her the best, that means, she wasnt really for me and would have happen later on anyways.
About doing it behind me, I dont think will happen, she knows if she wants to have an adventure, thats because i didnt fulfill something and she can go ahead, just let me know, im cool with it. It hasent happen yet.
She says she loves me more than anything after all this, she knows she wont get this much pleasure and enjoy the one she loves.
2006-08-16 04:17:37 · update #1
NO,
Your not wrong. As long as you both are ready for anything that may happen. Even if she were to leave you for another. Also are you ready for the reality of this?
Seeing the girl you love, being completely intimate with another guy?
2006-08-14 11:29:07 · answer #1 · answered by ninnian / 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be careful what you wish for honey. Sometimes fantasies should be left to be just that....a fantasy. You are opening the door to an entire world of bad possibilities and you might want to consider this only if your relationship is strong enough to withold that kind of strain. I can see her wanting to fulfill your fantasies, she may even find it exciting. But on the other side of that coin, you may have to consider what if she finds that other individual more exciting than you? The security you have within yourself cannot control the outcome of the situation. Say for instance sex is better with the other guy...will she start sneaking around? I mean if she's willing to screw around in front of you, why not when you aren't there? And then what about her emotional stability? It sounds like an exciting idea at the time, but when it comes down to doing the deed, is she going to be hurt because she'd rather make love to you and instead you want to watch her with someone else? This is why they have porn honey....so you can get aroused and not having to worry about messing up your personal life.
2006-08-14 18:30:04 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong! Now she is every-ones girlfriend! She will probably lose respect for you, because if she does what you ask, then she has no respect for herself! She may also find someone who performs better than you, so that you will no longer be enough for her. You are setting her up for a moral downfall, and probable disease! Too bad you are so shallow as to think only about your own self gratification, rather than the long term effects this may have on her life, if you decide to fulfill your fantasy!
2006-08-14 18:43:04 · answer #3 · answered by macfifty06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm yea..girls aren't items that you can just buy and push around when ever you please...I hope she is doing it because she wants too not because she loves a "a**" she calls her "boyfriend"....P.S: that's like watching your girlfriend cheat on you with your consent....and wouldn't the other guys be enjoying it more than you...??
2006-08-14 18:30:26 · answer #4 · answered by Envi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If shes into then go for it. You might feel a little weird if she seems to be having too much fun!
2006-08-14 18:27:54 · answer #5 · answered by coloklute 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Different strokes. If you're both ok with it, have at it. Just be careful, because you might get what you want. Or conversely, she might get what she wants.
2006-08-14 18:29:47 · answer #6 · answered by Yada Yada Yada 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural to be curious about these things and especially when you fancy someone so bad it excites you to watch them being pleasured
(voyeurism) I'll help....................just kidding!
2006-08-14 18:29:53 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can I have sex with her too... Your the MAN! I love guys who share! Good Times...
2006-08-14 18:29:02 · answer #8 · answered by wittster 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whatever works for both of you, but don't be suprised if when she does it, and enjoys it, you start getting jealous.
2006-08-14 18:29:27 · answer #9 · answered by Family Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can go very worng and lead to the other person feeling like you wanted them to do that and now they are cheap..JMO,Fantasy
all you want and talk about it but to do it is another thing
2006-08-14 18:28:23 · answer #10 · answered by candiesman05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋