I am in a booty call ONLY relationship with a married man. I have literally drove 4 hours one way to get it from him one time. He is that good. We have been doing this for almost 2 years, and we meet at least once every other week, if not more often. We both know that he won't leave his wife (he says he can't afford to loose half of his stuff), and that is fine by me, as long as I can still get a little. (ha ha ha) But he threw a curve ball the other day when he said he loved me. I even stopped him to make sure I heard him right and he did say that he loved me... Is he truly in love or was it in the heat of the moment blurt?
2006-08-14 11:21:03 · 20 answers · asked by kssunflower 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is the only guy I sleep with, I don't even have a boyfriend. I know that it sounds bad but you would do the same in my shoes. I just don't know if he meant what he said.
2006-08-14 11:28:56 · update #1
I know that it is love because a guy is scared to say that they love someone. He wouldn't want to c u every other week if it was only booty call because he gets that at home. it's ur presence that he enjoys and he likes the[power of your kiss when u guys make love. It is love if he got what he wanted at home he wouldn't need u. he wants patience, love, careing, love and most of all he likes u 4 d person u r inside and 4 d good qualities that u possess
2006-08-14 11:29:20 · answer #1 · answered by Italian Empress 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Well here's the only thing can say to that, if its only a booty call thing the Love word is gonna complicate the hell out of it. Its your deal, but personally, I would find a new friend. And dont let the rest the answer bother you, aint nothing wrong with a woman have Friends with Benefits.
2006-08-14 18:27:03 · answer #2 · answered by D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off are you happy with being the other woman? Are you sure that you are the only one he has on the side? If you go into a relationship with him, what would make you think he would not get tired of you and do the same thing with someone else?
I personally think you need your own man and stay in a one on one relationship. It is the safest and sanest .
2006-08-14 18:26:35 · answer #3 · answered by thebulktiny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say, probably the heat of the moment. But you really need to talk to him about this. Could make for a really tough situation if he's starting to have serious feelings for you, and you only view him as NSA material. Good luck.
2006-08-14 18:27:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he knows you are sleeping with another guy who sucks in bed...he probably just said that to make sure he still gets to use you. Like a security blanket. Trust me, I've slept with a lot of married women, (I'm single) Men know what, when and where to say something to keep getting no strings attached sex.
2006-08-14 18:27:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
so your being used for sex because his wife probably sucks in bed and is unnatractive to him after she popped out a couple kids, so he moves on to you having numerous sexual conquests and whatnot, did you think that he's probably not even picturing you when he's sleeping with you? more than likely he was seeing his wife, said it out of reflex and there you have it, why would you do this with a married man though, i'm not badmouthing you i'm just asking, you're only lining yourself up to get hurt really bad when its all done, and just for sex? cmon there's always a better lay out there somewhere
2006-08-14 18:28:14 · answer #6 · answered by micktobi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough to answer with just this little input... however, with limited info, this is what i have concluded!
He may have found out that his true love is you and is willing to risk everything he has to be with you... Tread carefully, sit down with him and talk about what he said... better to talk after u guys r done with your *booty call*.
All the best!
2006-08-14 18:28:05 · answer #7 · answered by triumcruise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just watched on the TV a jealous wife who killed her husband running him over with her car 3 times because he was lying to her and cheating on her, she found him and his lover in a hotel and attacked the mistress and killed the guy.
be careful!!! what you're doing is wrong, and sooner or later it will end up in a lot of drama and danger for everyone involved.
stuff like this is what crime, horror fils and murders are made of. WACH OUT@!
2006-08-14 18:27:45 · answer #8 · answered by Nia24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he did throw a curve. Keep it NSA and both of you will be fine. Enjoy
2006-08-14 18:31:12 · answer #9 · answered by moonlite1us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only asking for heartache. Stop thinking with your Vagina for a second and put try putting yourself in his wifes shoes. How would you feel? Remember, karma is real and its a b-i-t-c-h.
2006-08-14 18:27:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋