Does this makes me a Lesbian???

Question

sometimes..i really think that i am not that attractive..
so sometimes when i see teenagers/girls on the television...i always wish i could be as pretty as them..

so i was wondering if that makes me a lesbian??

Answer 1

First off, most people on television are beautiful, male and female, so there is nothing wrong with acknowledging that.
Especially since the human body is an amazing work of art.
Secondly, it is quite common for teenage girls to look at other girls. Usually it is for two reasons: to see if you are normal physically and to decide what you think is pretty or how you think you should look. It is natural to compare yourself to others (although you really shouldn't because you are beautiful in your own way). This doesn't make you gay.

Answer 2

Aww, no, you just long to look the way they do...you admire their prettiness, and dont see yourself like you would like to look. One thing that is good, you didn't say you were jealous...that is a not nice trait...you admire their beauty...so, it is time to get into yourself...I bet you're pretty and don't even know it..maybe if you start looking at fashion magazines, and trying new makeup, or fixing your hair a different way..but don't forget one important thing, beauty is only skin deep, and true beauty comes from within..work on those things that truly make you a beautiful person, not a jealous one, or a nasty one, or a gossip..but become all the wonderful things you can and you will shine above the rest, believe me...And last, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder..I bet if you let your inner beauty shine, some sweet guy is going to find you some day and look out! Good luck and God Bless

Answer 3

No, that doesn't mean that you're a lesbian.

Wanting to look like someone else is simply that. My advice to you...is to find out exactly what it is that makes you want to look like someone other than yourself. If its their hair, go get a new haircut, if its their clothing, work on a new wardrobe. There comes a time in everyone's life when they become who they WANT to be. Maybe it's your time. These women are your prototypes, the woman that you want to become.

Think of it simpky as, admiring the appearance of others. Your not a lesbian if you like the way another woman looks.

After all, women dress up for other women, not for men. (The average man dosen't know target from michael kors.) So, there's nothing wrong with looking at other women for inspiration.

Answer 4

You know, I feel like that sometimes. I think it's natural to see people and think that they are attractive. Thinking someone is attractive and wishing you could look like them doesn't make you a lesbian. There is a difference between thinking someone is attractive and being attracted to them. I don't think that there is a set criteria in what makes someone a lesbian. It's what you feel in your heart. If that's what you feel, that's fine. Admiring someones looks doesn't make you straight or gay.

Answer 5

No that doesn't make you a lesbian. If you look at the young women, and get all tingly, then perhaps.

If you go and touch yourself and imagine they're touching you... ah could be.

If you find a female companion and go to a Melissa Ethridge concert, practicing heavy petting the entire time you're there... probably.

If after the concert and you and your partner, slip off, buy some comfortable shoes, and men's casual clothing... you're certainly projecting the image of a lesbian.

If you and your friend go home, get naked and bring each other to the most amazing orgasms you've ever experienced to the point where you're trying to remember why you might possibly consider putting up with the idiosyncrasies of any man... congratulations... you're a lesbian.

Not to worry. Finding people of the same sex as you attractive doesn't make you homosexual, it make you human. My perception of who is attractive and who is not is not limited to women. I can find men visually unpleasant or good looking. It is harder for us, as women have such diverse tastes in what they find physically attractive.

Answer 6

No...all girls are like that unless they are satisfied with the way they look. We all wish we could look like the models that are cast in movies and tv shows. What makes you lesbian is if guys don't turn you on and girls do.

Answer 7

No, thinking they're hot and wanting to, well, you know, would make you a lesbian. This just means you're normal girl with self esteem problems. Most likely, your looks aren't any worse than average (and if they aren't you can fix it with enough money). I wouldn't worry about it. Looks aren't everything.

Answer 8

No, it makes you a human. Sexual attraction is built on a self-concept of one's own gender. Struggling with that concept of oneself as a woman (or a man as the case may be) often causes confusion.
It's okay to be attracted to your sex. That's how you're going to determine who you are going to be, what roles you want to fill. Attraction to the opposite sex will come in time. For some, they form who they are based on these attractions in the early years of sexual development, and they never come to a complete resolution of same-sex attraction that all humans face to a degree. It turns from their stage of psychosexual development into their lifestyle choice. I wish I could help them, but I can't. I'm just a massage therapist, and it anything, I probably make it worse for them. : (

Answer 9

no I think that all the time its ok to think that another girl is prtty or beautiful. Its just you wanting to better yourself and people tell you that what you see on tv is beautiful so you wish you could be them. its ok your not a lesbian. now if you wanted to kiss another girl then you might be. lol

Answer 10

Nope. Besides...you'd look like one of those teens on TV too if you spend 3 hours a day in a chair with people running around you putting on makeup, doing your hair, etc.

Don't sweat it. Some of us just are plain looking folk and then others like me bear a striking resemblance to Brad Pitt.

What can I say?