(back ground info... im 16, uk ipswich about 2 start collage)
Begining of year 11, i chatted up this girl on the internet... She was very depressed but i manged 2 cheer her up and solve alot of her probs (at the cost of alot sleep and fallin behind on my studies)
We meet around chrismas and b4 we knew it was havin alot of sex.. she lived i sheffeild so i could get a train 2 go and c her....
I did wanted her 2 gain some (quite abit) of weight 2 make the sex better... and i would try make her stay in and eat more....
over the last mounth we argued alot about this (the ^^^ being the main reson why.. but she didn't kno it was about that)
I ended up brakin it off... and then meet anouther gal online who lives in USA...
she is sexy, neaughty and gr8 person... and we went out shortly
me and my X still been talkin and she relli wnts me bck and willin 2 do anything 4 me and thinks she is the cause of all the arguing...
i add more info wid rest of the story....
2006-08-14 11:17:35 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok and she think everything is her fault!
im so manipulating and the oy reson im postin this on here is i don't have the right 2 choose and get away with this!
my question is wt would u in my postion wher eu can get any gal 2 fall 4 u...
and should i b allowed 2 get away with it?!
and who would u choose?
2006-08-14 11:19:15 · update #1
Hay You,
Is that all you can think about is the sex?
Or is there real reasons to be with her?
Are you a BBW fan?
Is that why you asked her to gain the weight?
if all your after is a bird to fill your bed.
Leave the girl go.
asn Go to another. if you really have true feelings for her.
talk it out
2006-08-14 11:26:08 · answer #1 · answered by ninnian / 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why choose? Soon enough you will be tied down to some saggy, gripey little git who won't let you go to the market by yourself without throwing a hysterical jealous hissy fit, and only lets you touch her under the sheets, in the dark, twice a week. Sew your wild oats, young man. Cause you'll you wish you had sooner than you think.
2006-08-14 11:26:06 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like u've destroyed this girl in Shefields self esteem. She sounds like the kind of person who should not be around you (or anyone who makes demands like I want you to gain weight to make sex better - how selfish is that).
You shoudln't go back to either girl. Go and find some girls in the real world.
2006-08-14 11:25:24 · answer #3 · answered by scaryclairy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are an evil boy. One day soon a beautiful girl is going to smash your little heart to bits and then eat it. You should be ashamed of yourself.
Remember this...what goes around comes around.
When you least expect it...BAM! Your ego and your pride are dragged through the mud and you are left a shell of a man...a blubbering bloody fool for love.
Guess what? YOU DESERVE IT.
Leave that poor girl alone. Trying to make her fat to get your own dick hard. Just go and find yourself someone who is already fat. She deserves better than you. You should go fu(k yourself.
MORON!
2006-08-14 11:26:06 · answer #4 · answered by applegirl1976 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF YOURSELF!!
the girl turned to you during depression and you cheered her up,and worse..you left her,putting her back in what you helped her with in the first place. to make things worse,,breaking up with her cuz of her weight affecting your sex??
That girl from US...sexy,naughty,...try your luck,but am telling you she will be the one to do the same thing you did to the other poor girl,what makes you think she'll b ther 4 u like the other girl did? you probably won't be her only after all she is sexy and NAUGHTY..etc,SOMEONE else Must think the same thing..and ofcourse she in the US,what makes she will be so willing to...
i'd rather you stay with your ex.
you must b so sick for doing it to the British girl,.thats just wrong!! YOU OWE HER FOR MORE PAIN YOU PUT HER BACK INTO...don't you think?
2006-08-14 11:29:18 · answer #5 · answered by gabi c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would do the right thing, i would tell the ex that it is not her fault that you two arent together anymore, that it is yours cause you chose to not like her how she was you wanted to be selfish and make her gain wieght to what you like, that you were not thinking about her feelings, then i would leave her alone and tell her that you are not good for her. you need to go find yourself someone that is already heavy or fat as you say so that you dont do things other girls like you did to her. believe me thier are plenty of ladies out there that are not skinny.
2006-08-14 11:24:47 · answer #6 · answered by Blonds Rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 10:51:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
duh, dude , have you ever tried to get a female to lose weight? you think it is tough to get them to gain it, try getting them to lose it. sounds like you didn't really care for girl #1 , you was just using her, cut her loose, she would be better off without you. she will recover to thank you someday. tell girl # 2 about the experience you had with girl #1 , if she hangs around after that story, she deserves what she gets. she was warned.
2006-08-14 11:26:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, um. That's interesting. My advice to you if they are on different sides of the big pond, then keep 'em both...who's going to care? If you can't decide on which one to choose, then keep 'em both. (that's redundant I know, but in my head, u r 16, get as much coo as you can...try not to lead anyone to kill themselves aiight...u b good).
2006-08-14 11:28:27 · answer #9 · answered by sweet_sassy_female 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Srry bout' this but, u r all sick and nasty!!! Why do guys like u exist anyway!!! That's about the best question I heard all day!!! U just make it harder for girls my age!!! U all r sooooo sick!!!!
2006-08-14 14:11:52 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋